Coming to the end of another year, the loss of our last Nubian, Sadie, signaled the end of an era. 14 years of goat-keeping, of 4 main characters, Rammy and Cleo, and Red and Sadie, and their offspring along the way. So many memories. Their different personalities. Fun times, and not so fun times. Long hours awaiting births, hard work trying to milk Sadie and Cleo (who were most definite that they were NOT going to be demeaned in that way!), lots of mucking out, lots of bulking up bedding during cold Winters. It is sad to have lost them all now, but the memories live on.
Rammy was our first. In August of 2003. we had moved into our house in June, and I wanted goats and chickens ... and who knew what else. We had an acre field, and it had a pole barn down there.
Scanning the livestock ads, I came across one for a 3 week old Nubian. When we got to see him, he was still basically newborn size, as he had been a tiny baby and not expected to live.
Even a couple of months later, he was till dwarfed by the tiger lilies down the side of our driveway.
We did everything wrong with Rammy. They warn you not to treat baby goats like a puppy ... hubby did! I kept telling him not to, but to no avail. Unfortunately, what is fun and cute when they are 18" or so at the shoulder, is not quite so easy to deal with when they are 4 feet at that same point.
Rammy would treat us like another goat. The way they rear up and butt heads, he would rear up and bring his head down and "butt" our outstretched hand. Had he not have been so mild-mannered, that could have been dangerous, but - although mischievous - Rammy was not out to hurt he just wanted to play.
For the first couple of months, he stayed inside. I put a large dog pen in our laundry room (along with all the foster kittens we had at that time, for a local rescue), and bedded it with hay, and he slept in there overnight. Daytimes he just pranced around the yard while we did whatever.
Goats are societal creatures though, so we wanted a friend and mate for him, and found a 4 month old doeling who we named Cleo.
With having the 2, hubby made 2 separate stalls in the pole barn, and we put mesh at the bottom so that they could "see" each other even having their own sleeping space. Thus Rammy moved out of his little sleeping pen in the laundry room and down into the barn, into his own stall.
In January 2004, just before a snowstorm hit, I ended up with Red and Sadie. I had been trying to help another lady with her young goats and it wasn't going well. I already had some health issues, as did she, but she was neither any worse, nor better, than I, despite her always moaning about being a "poor disabled lady". As I came to find out later, she was a scammer, sadly.
She was very demanding. She had told me I needed to come and help more, and I had explained that working, having my own animals to take care of, and a hubby to get dinner ready for, I could not come every day, I could do maybe 3 times a week. Her goats were sick, they were very wild compared to Rammy and Cleo, very timid and hard to catch in order to give shots and medicate. I felt sorry for them but had my own to care for. She started saying I should take them to mine so I could get them better for her, but I didn't want to get my 2 sick, and I only had the 2 stalls. Things came to a head, with her calling me one evening to say she was giving me the goats as she couldn't care for them any more. I told her, I still couldn't bring them to mine until they were well. Suffice to say, she called the next night and said "oh you need to come over and feed YOUR GOATS". I was horrified, and I said to Mark, "she's not going to feed or water them. She'll let them starve if I don't go over every day and feed them". He said, "we'll have to go over and get them", so I called her back and said that we were coming to get them.
We had a larger pen, that we set on the back of the pick up truck, and put blankets over to try to cut down on draughts as we travelled. We got home about 10pm, the snow was starting to fall, and I bundled Rammy and Cleo together, so that I could put Red and Sadie in the other stall. Unfortunately the mesh at the bottom meant that I ended up with 4 sick goats, and within days had become very proficient in administering Nasalgen, Nutridrench and giving shots.
They were both so timid at first, and being so mistreated by my efforts to get them well, didn't help in taming them at all. For a few weeks, we would put them on a leash in their stall and bring them out on it so that they couldn't just run off, because even "just" a one acre field is plenty big enough for them to elude 2 humans attempting to catch them.
Once well, despite remaining somewhat skittish, they adjusted and bonded with Rammy and Cleo. The girls hung out and the boys would play and butt heads and such.
Red's hoofs were a major issue. He had had a broken ankle a a baby, and his hoofs grew uneven and constantly needed trimming. He was such a gentle soul though, such a good boy and put up with it, although you could tell he hated having it done.
We lost him first, when he was 11, and then Rammy a few months later. Cleo had a prolapse when she was 13, and had to be put down, and Sadie left us last month.
Cleo had always been a brash, bossy and obstinate girl, whose 'bull in a china shop" approach went with a nosy nature and way-too-healthy appetite. She would ram the others to get her head in their food pans while leaving her own, or after having eaten all of hers. She was a greedy little moo!
I'd mix beet pulp, alfalfa, mixed grain and pellets for them, they'd have carrots and apples, persimmons off the tree in the field. The vet came out one time to do CAE testing and laughed, he said he'd never seen such pampered goats!
Cleo was a lover, too, though. In Summer, I'd sit down the field on the box that Sadie is standing on, in the pic, and Cleo would stand behind me and rest her head on my shoulder for me to rub her face and ears.
After Cleo's loss, Sadie took to hanging out up in the front yard, with our dogs. It was quite odd, if she was out alone, she acted like a goat, just strolled around (sometimes with the last chicken, riding on her back) but if she was out with our 4 dogs, she was a part of the pack and acted like a dog, running with them.
She knew the sound of our vehicle and, as we pulled up to the gate, she would come to greet up; hubby joked about us having to pay a toll, to get in. We would buy her french fries as her "treat".
They may be gone now, but we remember them all fondly. Their personalities, and our memories of them, are etched in our minds forever
Thursday, December 28, 2017
Sunday, December 24, 2017
Wishing you a blessed Christmas Eve
Christmas is my favourite time of the year, so I want to wish you all the joys of the season. Enjoy the magic, make memories with your families, and rejoice in the story of Christ's birth.
Eat ... but not too much
Drink ... but don't overdo it
Hope you get everything you desire, now and in the new year.
God bless you all, and thank you for being a part of my life
Eat ... but not too much
Drink ... but don't overdo it
Hope you get everything you desire, now and in the new year.
God bless you all, and thank you for being a part of my life
Tuesday, December 12, 2017
Things are coming together ... slowly
If I were a character in the story of The Hare and the Tortoise, I'd be the tortoise, LOL, as speedy is no longer in my vocabulary. However, even my slow progress in doing many things, brings me satisfaction and a feeling of accomplishment.
Today, digging through boxes, I found part of the Nativity Set that I've been hunting for ... I found my three wise men. They are now on the shelf. Still hunting for the rest of the people and animals though.
I also found a box of stuff to go be donated and even more stuff to just chuck out. This de-cluttering is really "freeing" LOL.
I plod through and do some, and then I rest for a while. Getting old, for me, has been a sobering experience, to say the least. We used to joke I'd be 65, hobbling with a cane, still in my leather jacket and riding bikes. Nope, ain't happening. There's no way I could cock my leg over a bike now, let alone lean around corners. I can laugh though and say, I'm not a wannabe, I'm a used-to-be ... or as some might say, a has-been. Ha ha!
It's funny some of the things I've found digging through, things I'd totally forgotten.
An old Poetry Now magazine. And when I looked through, it was a copy with one of my poems in. From "back in the day" when I was writing.
I had forgotten the days of me submitting my poems to this, and other magazines, in the hopes of seeing them in print.
I used to find inspiration everywhere, then just seems like I "dried up". Odd that.
Sprucie Baby is half-dressed. I need more baubles! I thought what I had would be enough, but it just didn't do as much as I thought. We have lights, but I want to get all his baubles in him first before stringing them. My arthritic hands made putting the baubles on, into a major challenge, but I got them all attached, in the end. Just took awhile and a lot of second and third attempts with some of them!
Last night, we broke down and got a trailer in Tractor Supply's sale. I did it though Ebates so I got cash back, saved $150 on it in the sale, and now we don't need to rent a van to pick up the wall unit and couches this weekend. Very satisfied all round!
Sunday night, I should be relaxing in my "new" living room, and I am so excited.
We had to postpone getting it painted until after Christmas as the painter has been busy and it was almost 3 weeks and he still hadn't managed to come and give us a quote. No worries though. It's all good. I can be patient. I'm feeling fairly content right now
Today, digging through boxes, I found part of the Nativity Set that I've been hunting for ... I found my three wise men. They are now on the shelf. Still hunting for the rest of the people and animals though.
I also found a box of stuff to go be donated and even more stuff to just chuck out. This de-cluttering is really "freeing" LOL.
I plod through and do some, and then I rest for a while. Getting old, for me, has been a sobering experience, to say the least. We used to joke I'd be 65, hobbling with a cane, still in my leather jacket and riding bikes. Nope, ain't happening. There's no way I could cock my leg over a bike now, let alone lean around corners. I can laugh though and say, I'm not a wannabe, I'm a used-to-be ... or as some might say, a has-been. Ha ha!
It's funny some of the things I've found digging through, things I'd totally forgotten.
An old Poetry Now magazine. And when I looked through, it was a copy with one of my poems in. From "back in the day" when I was writing.
I had forgotten the days of me submitting my poems to this, and other magazines, in the hopes of seeing them in print.
I used to find inspiration everywhere, then just seems like I "dried up". Odd that.
Sprucie Baby is half-dressed. I need more baubles! I thought what I had would be enough, but it just didn't do as much as I thought. We have lights, but I want to get all his baubles in him first before stringing them. My arthritic hands made putting the baubles on, into a major challenge, but I got them all attached, in the end. Just took awhile and a lot of second and third attempts with some of them!
Last night, we broke down and got a trailer in Tractor Supply's sale. I did it though Ebates so I got cash back, saved $150 on it in the sale, and now we don't need to rent a van to pick up the wall unit and couches this weekend. Very satisfied all round!
Sunday night, I should be relaxing in my "new" living room, and I am so excited.
We had to postpone getting it painted until after Christmas as the painter has been busy and it was almost 3 weeks and he still hadn't managed to come and give us a quote. No worries though. It's all good. I can be patient. I'm feeling fairly content right now
Saturday, December 9, 2017
Another pretty productive day
I do love it when things go "right" and my body lets me accomplish things. I do NOT overdo it, I joke that I have 2 speeds, slow and "resting", so any task takes me 2 or 3 snatches of doing part, and then a rest, then doing a bit more, then resting again. It's tedious, but on a good day, I can get quite a bit done in dribs and drabs.
Today, I managed to clear off and clean the other bookshelf out of what was my AVON room, and cheated and had hubby carry it through to the living room for me, so now the 3 are all in position along the wall where they belong.
Then I cleaned the stereo and speakers, and hubby set them in the cabinet where they belong.
Things are starting to take shape.
Due to the weather, we postponed picking up the wall unit and couches until next weekend. The couches are from Big Lots, the wall unit, I got off a local FB sale group from a lady who lives quite close to us.
I am going to be putting our computer desk where the lady has the table. It kind of matches what we already have.
I'm excited to see to all come together. Can hardly wait to pick this up and the couches, next weekend, and FINALLY have a living room again!
Today, I managed to clear off and clean the other bookshelf out of what was my AVON room, and cheated and had hubby carry it through to the living room for me, so now the 3 are all in position along the wall where they belong.
Then I cleaned the stereo and speakers, and hubby set them in the cabinet where they belong.
Things are starting to take shape.
Due to the weather, we postponed picking up the wall unit and couches until next weekend. The couches are from Big Lots, the wall unit, I got off a local FB sale group from a lady who lives quite close to us.
I am going to be putting our computer desk where the lady has the table. It kind of matches what we already have.
I'm excited to see to all come together. Can hardly wait to pick this up and the couches, next weekend, and FINALLY have a living room again!
Friday, December 8, 2017
The living room is coming together slowly
I am feeling quite accomplished today. I managed to clean and move a whole bookshelf, and all its contents, out of my AVON room and into my living room. One down and another still to do, but as you all know, I operate on 2 speeds only, slow and oops-gotta-rest, so I am thankful I was able to get this done albeit that I had to rest between taking the bookshelf through, and then coming back and taking all the ornaments through to place back in their positions, after cleaning.
I still have to get all my boxed Mrs Albees back out of their boxes and pop them all back again.
The wall cabinets and shelves we got done over the past 2 weeks are here:
Hubby still has to connect this end for me, and tonight I'm hoping to get the stereo and speakers cleaned and have him put them in the bottom spaces and connect them all up.
I am just so looking forward to finally getting it all together. 2 weeks of shelf and cabinet cleanings and movings, decluttering, donating some stuff, trashing some, and it's slowly getting there.
Tonight, we are heading to big lots to pay for the 2 couches that we decided on. Yes, we will now have a couch apiece, only $5 difference in price from the loveseat so we decided, ok, we will get his 'n' hers couches, LOL.
I'm not totally hooked on the colour, but I am TOTALLY hooked on the comfort. We sat on one in the store last week, and it was wonderful!
That's about where we are at with it all so far.
Enjoy your weekend!
I still have to get all my boxed Mrs Albees back out of their boxes and pop them all back again.
I am just so looking forward to finally getting it all together. 2 weeks of shelf and cabinet cleanings and movings, decluttering, donating some stuff, trashing some, and it's slowly getting there.
Tonight, we are heading to big lots to pay for the 2 couches that we decided on. Yes, we will now have a couch apiece, only $5 difference in price from the loveseat so we decided, ok, we will get his 'n' hers couches, LOL.
I'm not totally hooked on the colour, but I am TOTALLY hooked on the comfort. We sat on one in the store last week, and it was wonderful!
That's about where we are at with it all so far.
Enjoy your weekend!
Sunday, December 3, 2017
A sad weekend
Today we lost our darlin' Sadie, she was 14 years old, and had lived a good life with us. She was "acting funny" for a few days and then got very listless.
We'll remember her for her exotic eating preferences - persimmons, peaches and french fries. The fries were the toll she demanded for entry through the front gates once she started living up in the front yard and hanging out with the dogs, after her buddy Cleo died a couple of years ago.
It's the end of an era, she was our last surviving goatie furbaby.
Sunday, November 26, 2017
I have so enjoyed having hubby home!
This week has definitely passed way too quickly! Hubby took some vacation time from last Tuesday, and we have been busily working on redoing our living room, and looking at the new furnishings we are planning on getting for it. The cleaning and dusting of the shelves was taking me way too long, because of my health issues, so yesterday I "stole" my friend, Dimple's, 2 children, Sam and Sara, to come and help.Hubby, and their dad, Scot, took the old couch and dumped it, and the kids and I wiped down, dusted and cleaned shelves, books and ornaments off of them. We accomplished a lot. still have a lot to do, but we made headway yesterday.
We have come a cropper with some of my original ideas. The screens that I had planned on getting, originally. I found reviews online that other buyers had posted, and it seems they are not as nice "in person" as the illustrations would have you believe. People have said they are flimsier and that the colours are not as expected, and they are unable to be cleaned as the print "runs". So, back to the drawing board on that one!
Tuesday's overstuffed recliner hunting proved that a recliner is not a good choice for me. getting into, and getting comfy, was good. Trying to set the seat back from the recline position ... nope, wasn't happening. Legs flailed everywhere and still the chair stayed reclined, and the side handle was no help whatsoever. So plans there changed too. First to an oversized armchair, and now looking at a loveseat or even a sofa for me to lounge on, and the recliner for hubby.
In other words, we now have no fixed ideas on the screens or the seating, LOL!
The "definites" so far are a live tree in a pot, for Christmas, an ivy that I can trail around the room like I had in Florida and in Germany, spider plants hanging, and some feng shui in the form of a water feature, and a bamboo stalk sprouting in a vase. Yes, making it a human-only zone means I can have some of my flora back in the house!
I am just so excited, and looking forward to this!
Today is going to be awesome too. We have friends coming down to visit from North Carolina ... our "adopted family" who were our next door neighbours in Port St John,Florida. The little lass that I babysat, who is now married and has a baby of her now, l'il miss Josie Jane. I will get to hold the little one today, and catch up with nattering with her mum and dad, and my friends Ronnie and Patty, her grandparents.
I am sooo looking forward to it!
Have a wonderful day, my friends :)
We have come a cropper with some of my original ideas. The screens that I had planned on getting, originally. I found reviews online that other buyers had posted, and it seems they are not as nice "in person" as the illustrations would have you believe. People have said they are flimsier and that the colours are not as expected, and they are unable to be cleaned as the print "runs". So, back to the drawing board on that one!
Tuesday's overstuffed recliner hunting proved that a recliner is not a good choice for me. getting into, and getting comfy, was good. Trying to set the seat back from the recline position ... nope, wasn't happening. Legs flailed everywhere and still the chair stayed reclined, and the side handle was no help whatsoever. So plans there changed too. First to an oversized armchair, and now looking at a loveseat or even a sofa for me to lounge on, and the recliner for hubby.
In other words, we now have no fixed ideas on the screens or the seating, LOL!
The "definites" so far are a live tree in a pot, for Christmas, an ivy that I can trail around the room like I had in Florida and in Germany, spider plants hanging, and some feng shui in the form of a water feature, and a bamboo stalk sprouting in a vase. Yes, making it a human-only zone means I can have some of my flora back in the house!
I am just so excited, and looking forward to this!
Today is going to be awesome too. We have friends coming down to visit from North Carolina ... our "adopted family" who were our next door neighbours in Port St John,Florida. The little lass that I babysat, who is now married and has a baby of her now, l'il miss Josie Jane. I will get to hold the little one today, and catch up with nattering with her mum and dad, and my friends Ronnie and Patty, her grandparents.
I am sooo looking forward to it!
Have a wonderful day, my friends :)
Monday, November 20, 2017
Oh boy! I am so weak!
They do say that "the best laid plans go awry" and I guess none such as the mind imagines ... and the body cannot fulfil.
I was motivated to start spring cleaning the living room ready for redoing it for Christmas. Hubby and I have decided on a few things, just 2 new reclining armchairs, a tv and 2 screens to divide if off from the front door (and keep the animals out so that, this year - for the first time in many - I can have a Christmas tree and decorate it). The rug we already have is fine. We will swap out bookshelf units. It sounded all so easy. LOL
So, the 2 packed bookshelves that are currently in there needed dusting, along with all the books that line their shelves. I figured I could work on a couple of shelves and books today, some more tomorrow, just take my time and get them all done.
For starters, I forgot that I've lost a couple of inches in height over the past few years. Of course, you have to start at the top or you'll just be dropping dust on stuff you've already done. I have a soft Norwex thingy on a handle and thought that'd be perfect for em to get the dust off the top of the bookcase ... except I couldn't reach far enough with it. I could barely hold myself up long enough to get it over the top. I needed something with a longer handle.
Over the weekend, hubby and I had bought 2 new toilet brushes at the Dollar Tree ... so I went and grabbed one of those, hooked some wipes around the end, and (holding on to the shelf with my left hand) proceeded to wipe back and forth with this paraphernalia, in my right.
Totally exhausting!
One shelf! That was all I accomplished, my arms are still throbbing, my back hurt from trying to stand straight and my BP soared. Ugh! I sat to wipe off the leatherette cassette tape case, but my energy was depleted.
I am so mad at my body right now. I just had such high hopes of being able to do this. I shouldn't be, I am able to do so much more than I was before, and I am very thankful for that, but I just had wanted to be able to do this and not let it all lay on hubby.
I am thinking that when I try again either later, or tomorrow, it will be 1 shelf lower and should be a little easier. That is my hope anyway.
Enjoy your day, my friends!
I was motivated to start spring cleaning the living room ready for redoing it for Christmas. Hubby and I have decided on a few things, just 2 new reclining armchairs, a tv and 2 screens to divide if off from the front door (and keep the animals out so that, this year - for the first time in many - I can have a Christmas tree and decorate it). The rug we already have is fine. We will swap out bookshelf units. It sounded all so easy. LOL
So, the 2 packed bookshelves that are currently in there needed dusting, along with all the books that line their shelves. I figured I could work on a couple of shelves and books today, some more tomorrow, just take my time and get them all done.
For starters, I forgot that I've lost a couple of inches in height over the past few years. Of course, you have to start at the top or you'll just be dropping dust on stuff you've already done. I have a soft Norwex thingy on a handle and thought that'd be perfect for em to get the dust off the top of the bookcase ... except I couldn't reach far enough with it. I could barely hold myself up long enough to get it over the top. I needed something with a longer handle.
Over the weekend, hubby and I had bought 2 new toilet brushes at the Dollar Tree ... so I went and grabbed one of those, hooked some wipes around the end, and (holding on to the shelf with my left hand) proceeded to wipe back and forth with this paraphernalia, in my right.
Totally exhausting!
One shelf! That was all I accomplished, my arms are still throbbing, my back hurt from trying to stand straight and my BP soared. Ugh! I sat to wipe off the leatherette cassette tape case, but my energy was depleted.
I am so mad at my body right now. I just had such high hopes of being able to do this. I shouldn't be, I am able to do so much more than I was before, and I am very thankful for that, but I just had wanted to be able to do this and not let it all lay on hubby.
I am thinking that when I try again either later, or tomorrow, it will be 1 shelf lower and should be a little easier. That is my hope anyway.
Enjoy your day, my friends!
Friday, November 17, 2017
I love Lidl, a productive day and ideas for the living room
Today has been a very satisfying day. Quite productive. It started with a lie-in, as it was hubby's off Friday, and then a slow wake up. I fed the doggies and let them out, then in, then out again ... my usual doggie do-see-do.
Then we went to Hu Hot for an early lunch. It's my favourite splurge at the moment. It fits in well with my weight loss journey as I pick the leanest meats, my onions, carrots, mushrooms and celery (all low-cal and good for me) a couple of ladles of teriyaki and 2 each of garlic and ginger broth. Even with my rice, I usually end up around 700 tasty calories or less and it sets me up for the day. Plus I get some walking in, going from the car into the restaurant, going around the ingredients bars, and then out again afterwards. So thankful for my walker, as without it, I wouldn't be able to go!
As we came back through Mauldin, hubby restocked my #AVONbrochures at Ingles, and then we filled up on gas and got a car wash. The lady in front of us spent 15 minutes trying to swipe her card, finally telling us the machine wasn't working, so I suggested she go in the store and pay, and just get a code. She had a beautiful old Golden Retriever in her car who started barking as she ran over to the store. That worked though, and she came back, got her car done and then we drove ours in.
Since I'd ran out of my lavender oil, we then went to the neighbourhood market Walmart to grab a bottle, and came out after getting all our furbabies foods.
We came home and unloaded, let the dogs out again, and then went to Lidl! I LOVE Lidl! The first time, I was disappointed and annoyed that they were not disabled friendly, and had no electric carts. However, my trusty walker is my best friend now. Lidl has become my exercise trip. I stop and sit frequently BUT I walk up and down all the aisles ... and that makes me really proud of myself. I couldn't do it without my walker, and without resting so often, and I ache afterwards but hey! I'm DOING IT!
Today's Lidl trip was awesome, they have so much Christmassy stuff in, I got some gifts for my granddaughters here and my 2 local great-grandkids, Daniel and Sami. We also got some of our favourite German Christmas snacks, and the ground beef and macaroni cheese for the doggies cook-ups.
Hubby was hungry on the way home so we ran by Mickey D's drive-thru to get him something, and grabbed fries for Sadie and a plain cheeseburger each for Angel, Bo, Mystery and Max.
Once we got home, after giving our four-leggeds their treats I divvied the ground beef and froze separate portions.
Since then, we've been vegging out, just lazing around and watching the tv.
We've been talking about re-doing our living room, and have decided on screens to divide it from the walkway from the front door, and just a recliner each, and a tv. So, that all is going to be our Christmas gifts to ourself this year.
I found a beautiful screen, of Mucha prints. Years ago I had framed prints of Mucha's 4 Seasons. I love his artwork, so glamorous. We'll need 3 to divide it off fully.
Then we went to Hu Hot for an early lunch. It's my favourite splurge at the moment. It fits in well with my weight loss journey as I pick the leanest meats, my onions, carrots, mushrooms and celery (all low-cal and good for me) a couple of ladles of teriyaki and 2 each of garlic and ginger broth. Even with my rice, I usually end up around 700 tasty calories or less and it sets me up for the day. Plus I get some walking in, going from the car into the restaurant, going around the ingredients bars, and then out again afterwards. So thankful for my walker, as without it, I wouldn't be able to go!
As we came back through Mauldin, hubby restocked my #AVONbrochures at Ingles, and then we filled up on gas and got a car wash. The lady in front of us spent 15 minutes trying to swipe her card, finally telling us the machine wasn't working, so I suggested she go in the store and pay, and just get a code. She had a beautiful old Golden Retriever in her car who started barking as she ran over to the store. That worked though, and she came back, got her car done and then we drove ours in.
Since I'd ran out of my lavender oil, we then went to the neighbourhood market Walmart to grab a bottle, and came out after getting all our furbabies foods.
We came home and unloaded, let the dogs out again, and then went to Lidl! I LOVE Lidl! The first time, I was disappointed and annoyed that they were not disabled friendly, and had no electric carts. However, my trusty walker is my best friend now. Lidl has become my exercise trip. I stop and sit frequently BUT I walk up and down all the aisles ... and that makes me really proud of myself. I couldn't do it without my walker, and without resting so often, and I ache afterwards but hey! I'm DOING IT!
Today's Lidl trip was awesome, they have so much Christmassy stuff in, I got some gifts for my granddaughters here and my 2 local great-grandkids, Daniel and Sami. We also got some of our favourite German Christmas snacks, and the ground beef and macaroni cheese for the doggies cook-ups.
Hubby was hungry on the way home so we ran by Mickey D's drive-thru to get him something, and grabbed fries for Sadie and a plain cheeseburger each for Angel, Bo, Mystery and Max.
Once we got home, after giving our four-leggeds their treats I divvied the ground beef and froze separate portions.
Since then, we've been vegging out, just lazing around and watching the tv.
We've been talking about re-doing our living room, and have decided on screens to divide it from the walkway from the front door, and just a recliner each, and a tv. So, that all is going to be our Christmas gifts to ourself this year.
I found a beautiful screen, of Mucha prints. Years ago I had framed prints of Mucha's 4 Seasons. I love his artwork, so glamorous. We'll need 3 to divide it off fully.
I think it'll be lovely. I have a lot to do. We are going to have to "spring clean" the living room and take a lot of things out of it beforehand. But I'm excited. It'll be nice to use a living room again, instead of having been on my bed, or in it, for the past few years, most of every day.
I've been looking at overstuffed recliners too. I was thinking cosy, comfy fabric, but hubby said leather's more functional and easier to clean (very true!). So, we'll be getting 2 overstuffed leather ones.
I can hardly wait to see it all come together.
Plus, with screens to "close it off" we will be making it a four-legged free zone, that way I can again have some houseplants and possibly a diffuser (not sure about the latter but have wanted one for so long).
So, that's my day today, and where our thoughts are at right now.
Thanks for stopping by
Monday, November 13, 2017
Memories of Wereham
We first moved to Wereham when I was 12. It was totally different from London. Very rural, a small village, a couple of buses into Downham in the morning and a couple back in the evening. We'd walk from our house on Flegg Green down to the George and Dragon pub opposite the village pond, to catch one to go to school. Sometimes Mrs Yallop, the pub landlady, would come out and nag at us for our noisy chatter as we waited.
My dad stayed in London with his job, and travelled up on the weekends, turning part of the yard into a veggie garden. We had chickens in a pen at one side of the house, and an old boiler house that I used to boil up vegetable peelings in to make chicken mash for them.
There was an old shop at the front, cobweb covered, and next to it, a car port. Behind that were 2 attached buildings that became stables for Jack, the donkey, and 2 New Forest foals, a grey with a start on his forehead named Star, and my Golden Dawn, a palomino, beautiful golden chestnut with a blond mane and tail. I don't remember exactly where we got Jack, I think he may have come from a pub in Wretton or Stoke Ferry, but I'm not sure. Dawn and Star we got from Watlingon. Dawn was a filly, and she cost forty pounds. 20 weeks of half my paycheck back then.
My mum fostered, and we had a house full of kids. I worked for her, and she hire another lass, Diane Jarman, as well, and the landlady from the Chequers pub a few doors down, used to come in and clean a couple of times a week. Her name was Lorna.
Sometimes my mum would send me to the pub to get a bottle of Tizer or a couple of packs of crisps for a treat, and I met some of the regulars - Jimmy Allen from West Dereham and his brother Steve, Chippy Burgess, Gabby Matthews and his brother Donnie, Chode (real name Michael) and his brothers Paul and Cedric (real name Peter) - during those times. I wonder where they all are now and what they are doing. I was 15 and most were in their 20s and 30s then. I'm 62, so - if alive - most are old men now.
I volunteered at the local stables and loved my time there. Linda Dalliday taught me how to ride, and I loved the horses, especially a beautiful black boy with a star on his forehead named Slipknot. He belonged to the owner, and was his older daughter's horse. She was an accomplished rider and won many awards at gymkhanas, yet she was afraid of him. He was very spirited but he was so good with me, I'd have ridden him in a heartbeat had I been given the chance.
His family also operated the local milk route, and the lady who delivered lived in a cottage by the stables entrance. Her name was Alice and she was a cheerful lady with a big smile.
The stable owner's house was opposite the pond, as the road curved, and if we ran out of milk or eggs, I'd be sent up to knock at the back door, to get some.
There were only 2 shops in the village at that point, one at "the top" and one on the road we crossed, just before the pond. Both were small but served the village well.
The Post Office was at the back of the pond, just up from the village school and before the entrance to the village playing field. The school has been closed for many years now, and is a private home. My friend, Jeannette Roberts', mum was the postwoman when we were kids and rode all over the village, in all weathers, on her bicycle to deliver the mail.
Just down the road from us, on the opposite side of the road, was a small Christadelphian chapel where Michael Carter's mum taught Sunday School, and where I went for a while. I remember studying Paul's journeys there, and Paul is still somebody who fascinates me, in the Bible. Later on I went to Sunday School at St Margaret's Church near the pond, but the boys used to mess about and drive poor Victor, the man teaching it, crazy with their antics.
I always felt sorry for Victor, he was a solemn man. Always seemed lonely.
One year though, our dustbin disappeared, and where did we find it but at the church! It had our name on it underneath but that didn't matter. Village politics came into play and we were "foreigners" It had previously been explained to us by another "foreigner" that they'd been in the village 10 years and were still an outsider. So, my dad had picked up our dustbin and brought it home, and we were quite vocal about how the church had stolen out dustbin. Lo and behold the village policeman came to our house to talk to my dad about HIM stealing the church's dustbin! It didn't matter that it was ours and my dad had just taken back our property. Village politics said we had to give it back. I stopped going to Sunday School there after that. It just felt wrong that a church would steal and then have the audacity to send the police after my dad claiming he'd stolen THEIR property, which was what they had stolen from us.
My dad stayed in London with his job, and travelled up on the weekends, turning part of the yard into a veggie garden. We had chickens in a pen at one side of the house, and an old boiler house that I used to boil up vegetable peelings in to make chicken mash for them.
There was an old shop at the front, cobweb covered, and next to it, a car port. Behind that were 2 attached buildings that became stables for Jack, the donkey, and 2 New Forest foals, a grey with a start on his forehead named Star, and my Golden Dawn, a palomino, beautiful golden chestnut with a blond mane and tail. I don't remember exactly where we got Jack, I think he may have come from a pub in Wretton or Stoke Ferry, but I'm not sure. Dawn and Star we got from Watlingon. Dawn was a filly, and she cost forty pounds. 20 weeks of half my paycheck back then.
My mum fostered, and we had a house full of kids. I worked for her, and she hire another lass, Diane Jarman, as well, and the landlady from the Chequers pub a few doors down, used to come in and clean a couple of times a week. Her name was Lorna.
Sometimes my mum would send me to the pub to get a bottle of Tizer or a couple of packs of crisps for a treat, and I met some of the regulars - Jimmy Allen from West Dereham and his brother Steve, Chippy Burgess, Gabby Matthews and his brother Donnie, Chode (real name Michael) and his brothers Paul and Cedric (real name Peter) - during those times. I wonder where they all are now and what they are doing. I was 15 and most were in their 20s and 30s then. I'm 62, so - if alive - most are old men now.
I volunteered at the local stables and loved my time there. Linda Dalliday taught me how to ride, and I loved the horses, especially a beautiful black boy with a star on his forehead named Slipknot. He belonged to the owner, and was his older daughter's horse. She was an accomplished rider and won many awards at gymkhanas, yet she was afraid of him. He was very spirited but he was so good with me, I'd have ridden him in a heartbeat had I been given the chance.
His family also operated the local milk route, and the lady who delivered lived in a cottage by the stables entrance. Her name was Alice and she was a cheerful lady with a big smile.
The stable owner's house was opposite the pond, as the road curved, and if we ran out of milk or eggs, I'd be sent up to knock at the back door, to get some.
There were only 2 shops in the village at that point, one at "the top" and one on the road we crossed, just before the pond. Both were small but served the village well.
The Post Office was at the back of the pond, just up from the village school and before the entrance to the village playing field. The school has been closed for many years now, and is a private home. My friend, Jeannette Roberts', mum was the postwoman when we were kids and rode all over the village, in all weathers, on her bicycle to deliver the mail.
Just down the road from us, on the opposite side of the road, was a small Christadelphian chapel where Michael Carter's mum taught Sunday School, and where I went for a while. I remember studying Paul's journeys there, and Paul is still somebody who fascinates me, in the Bible. Later on I went to Sunday School at St Margaret's Church near the pond, but the boys used to mess about and drive poor Victor, the man teaching it, crazy with their antics.
I always felt sorry for Victor, he was a solemn man. Always seemed lonely.
One year though, our dustbin disappeared, and where did we find it but at the church! It had our name on it underneath but that didn't matter. Village politics came into play and we were "foreigners" It had previously been explained to us by another "foreigner" that they'd been in the village 10 years and were still an outsider. So, my dad had picked up our dustbin and brought it home, and we were quite vocal about how the church had stolen out dustbin. Lo and behold the village policeman came to our house to talk to my dad about HIM stealing the church's dustbin! It didn't matter that it was ours and my dad had just taken back our property. Village politics said we had to give it back. I stopped going to Sunday School there after that. It just felt wrong that a church would steal and then have the audacity to send the police after my dad claiming he'd stolen THEIR property, which was what they had stolen from us.
I admit my mind is wierd!
My mind takes me on some delicious little jaunts sometimes, into dreams that are a mismatch of people and activities, some very odd, and some waking moments when - overtired - it pops a question or two that really make me go "hmmm".
Overnight and this morning's nap proved quite interesting.
The dream, seems a mismatch of characters I've never met before, and yet know well, in it. The places that it took place in were a house that you just entered, as the door was never locked and anyone could go in. As you went in there was a tired looking girl with a headset on playing music "for the house". The house was it's own entity. Just seemed normal from the outside but inside was seemingly of department store directions, including 2 large rest rooms much like you'd find in a store somewhere and after another long walk to get to it, an animal shelter area, outside and in, where there was an alligator, 2 mid size piglets, a tiny baby piglet with no water just lying in what looked like a shoebox. They were all on the outside area where there were cobblestones.
Out the back of the house, there was another cobbled area that overlooked the ocean or maybe it was just an endless lake, and people sat in foldable chairs along the edge of this cobbled area, watching the water for a boat coming in that was going to take some out on the water. It was choppy though and so there was conversation going on that certain people had decided they weren't going to bother taking the trip.
Indoors, upstairs, I was watching a televised performance of the Les Miz show that I saw last night at the Peace Center, with a lady of either German or Eastern European origin, as she spoke with a very distinct accent. We were discussing some of the bawdy parts and whether the children should have seen them.
There were lots of children in the house, most around 8 or 9. No idea whose they were or where they came from, they were just there.
When I was outside with the people watching the ocean, I was me, like now, unable to walk properly and using my ridearound but inside the house, I was walking normally. Whoever was supposed to be caring for the animals had left them, and the piglet in a box was in a poor way and I was trying to get it revived with fluids, and get all the animals in out of the sun, by myself.
However the alligator was loose and I had to try to find someone to help.
I went into the rest room and the toilets were full, so I flushed them, but they overflowed, so I had to ask the lady watching television where the stuff was to clean it up, she told me just to get puppy pads from the shelter to soak it up.
Then I woke up so I have do idea what would have happened next. But what a jumble!
Now, in the night, I awoke as I usually do, but my brain was having one of its "let's give her something to think about moments" to keep me awake as I fought to go back to sleep.
Question: A fertilized ovum contains all the DNA from the parents of the future baby BUT, if that ovum is then inserted into a surrogate, and it is HER blood that then surges through that foetus as it grows, how does that NOT affect the DNA in any way? How can it pulse through that tiny body providing nourishment and removing waste, via the placenta, and yet not change anything to do with the baby's genetic make up. Leave no trace of itself.
Just puzzling, eh?
Overnight and this morning's nap proved quite interesting.
The dream, seems a mismatch of characters I've never met before, and yet know well, in it. The places that it took place in were a house that you just entered, as the door was never locked and anyone could go in. As you went in there was a tired looking girl with a headset on playing music "for the house". The house was it's own entity. Just seemed normal from the outside but inside was seemingly of department store directions, including 2 large rest rooms much like you'd find in a store somewhere and after another long walk to get to it, an animal shelter area, outside and in, where there was an alligator, 2 mid size piglets, a tiny baby piglet with no water just lying in what looked like a shoebox. They were all on the outside area where there were cobblestones.
Out the back of the house, there was another cobbled area that overlooked the ocean or maybe it was just an endless lake, and people sat in foldable chairs along the edge of this cobbled area, watching the water for a boat coming in that was going to take some out on the water. It was choppy though and so there was conversation going on that certain people had decided they weren't going to bother taking the trip.
Indoors, upstairs, I was watching a televised performance of the Les Miz show that I saw last night at the Peace Center, with a lady of either German or Eastern European origin, as she spoke with a very distinct accent. We were discussing some of the bawdy parts and whether the children should have seen them.
There were lots of children in the house, most around 8 or 9. No idea whose they were or where they came from, they were just there.
When I was outside with the people watching the ocean, I was me, like now, unable to walk properly and using my ridearound but inside the house, I was walking normally. Whoever was supposed to be caring for the animals had left them, and the piglet in a box was in a poor way and I was trying to get it revived with fluids, and get all the animals in out of the sun, by myself.
However the alligator was loose and I had to try to find someone to help.
I went into the rest room and the toilets were full, so I flushed them, but they overflowed, so I had to ask the lady watching television where the stuff was to clean it up, she told me just to get puppy pads from the shelter to soak it up.
Then I woke up so I have do idea what would have happened next. But what a jumble!
Now, in the night, I awoke as I usually do, but my brain was having one of its "let's give her something to think about moments" to keep me awake as I fought to go back to sleep.
Question: A fertilized ovum contains all the DNA from the parents of the future baby BUT, if that ovum is then inserted into a surrogate, and it is HER blood that then surges through that foetus as it grows, how does that NOT affect the DNA in any way? How can it pulse through that tiny body providing nourishment and removing waste, via the placenta, and yet not change anything to do with the baby's genetic make up. Leave no trace of itself.
Just puzzling, eh?
Friday, November 3, 2017
And ye pounds are tumbling down!
Yesterday was a good day for me. I hopped on a scale and found I have now lost a total of SEVENTY pounds and I walked quite a bit AND made it up and down a flight of stairs! I did pay for it later, my whole body throbbed with aching, but the sense of achievement was well worth it.
This weight loss journey is a challenge, obviously, but - funnily enough - I am aghast at the "cost" of some things in terms of fat, sodium and (since I have to limit mine) potassium. And once known, my brain seems to file it away and immediately say "no way" when I see those items again. That's a good thing, yes?
I'm gradually building up my activity level, although it is still minimal by other people's standards. It does make me laugh how, years ago, my goal when doing aerobics was to raise my heart rate by 40% and work "in the zone" where now because of my A-Fib issues that seem to start when my heart rate goes above about 65 or so, I am now trying to NOT raise my heart rate by more than 5bpm or so. Whole new concept, to me.
Having said that, on the seated elliptical, now I just pedal slowly as though I were taking a leisurely ride out in the countryside on a pleasant Summer's day. I no longer use the handles to work my arms at the same time. I read a book while I pedal, and have found 4-5 minutes is good for not raising my heart rate too much. I forgot the book, the other night, and without realising was doing the arms as well, and within 2 minutes I was experiencing the beginnings of an A-Fib episode.
I have to listen to my body and let it decree how I can do this stuff.
I am very pleased with myself, I started this journey at 317lbs and am now down to 246.6lbs, I still have a long way to go to get to my goal of 140lbs, but slow and steady wins the race, as they say. I definitely think that will be true in my case. Sure, I'd love to lose 10lbs a month but realistically, for me and all the issues I am dealing with, that's not viable now unless I "go on a diet" and severely restrict my eating. Right now, my main emphases are on CHANGING my eating habits, and BECOMING more mobile. Both of these should lead to the end result that I am hoping for.
Despite being on more meds now than I was a year ago, my other goal (to eradicate as many as possible and deal with the issues they are treating, naturally) is still on the books. My doctor fully supports me on this, so as time goes on, I am hoping to be able to report progress on that too. I am seeing a kind of improvement in that 3 of my meds (that I call my "emergency stash" as they are a "take as necessary, when needed") I have taken far less in the last few weeks. 2 are for when my blood pressure spikes above 150 systolic, and 1 is for anxiety and panic associated with the A-Fib attacks. By warding off the A-Fib by being careful not to overdo (for me) the few minutes and intensity of exercise, I've have needed the last maybe once in the past month, and the BP ones have gone from 4-5 days a week to maybe one or two doses in a week. It's all a work in process!
I am satisfied with how I am doing though, and will just continue plodding, one foot in front of the other.
Have a wonderful weekend!
This weight loss journey is a challenge, obviously, but - funnily enough - I am aghast at the "cost" of some things in terms of fat, sodium and (since I have to limit mine) potassium. And once known, my brain seems to file it away and immediately say "no way" when I see those items again. That's a good thing, yes?
I'm gradually building up my activity level, although it is still minimal by other people's standards. It does make me laugh how, years ago, my goal when doing aerobics was to raise my heart rate by 40% and work "in the zone" where now because of my A-Fib issues that seem to start when my heart rate goes above about 65 or so, I am now trying to NOT raise my heart rate by more than 5bpm or so. Whole new concept, to me.
Having said that, on the seated elliptical, now I just pedal slowly as though I were taking a leisurely ride out in the countryside on a pleasant Summer's day. I no longer use the handles to work my arms at the same time. I read a book while I pedal, and have found 4-5 minutes is good for not raising my heart rate too much. I forgot the book, the other night, and without realising was doing the arms as well, and within 2 minutes I was experiencing the beginnings of an A-Fib episode.
I have to listen to my body and let it decree how I can do this stuff.
I am very pleased with myself, I started this journey at 317lbs and am now down to 246.6lbs, I still have a long way to go to get to my goal of 140lbs, but slow and steady wins the race, as they say. I definitely think that will be true in my case. Sure, I'd love to lose 10lbs a month but realistically, for me and all the issues I am dealing with, that's not viable now unless I "go on a diet" and severely restrict my eating. Right now, my main emphases are on CHANGING my eating habits, and BECOMING more mobile. Both of these should lead to the end result that I am hoping for.
Despite being on more meds now than I was a year ago, my other goal (to eradicate as many as possible and deal with the issues they are treating, naturally) is still on the books. My doctor fully supports me on this, so as time goes on, I am hoping to be able to report progress on that too. I am seeing a kind of improvement in that 3 of my meds (that I call my "emergency stash" as they are a "take as necessary, when needed") I have taken far less in the last few weeks. 2 are for when my blood pressure spikes above 150 systolic, and 1 is for anxiety and panic associated with the A-Fib attacks. By warding off the A-Fib by being careful not to overdo (for me) the few minutes and intensity of exercise, I've have needed the last maybe once in the past month, and the BP ones have gone from 4-5 days a week to maybe one or two doses in a week. It's all a work in process!
I am satisfied with how I am doing though, and will just continue plodding, one foot in front of the other.
Have a wonderful weekend!
Wednesday, November 1, 2017
It feels more like Winter!
Gosh, it was almost bitter this morning, and the frost lay on the ground like glitter on a Christmas card. Last week, so hot and I was begging for Fall, and seems I had maybe a day or 2 and then this! LOL. No! This is not what I want. I want Autumn for a couple of months.
My dogs do not approve either! At 5.30 this morning, when I called them to go out for their first potty run of the day, I got barely wriggled ears and a raised eyebrow. All 4 looked at me with something akin to scorn, as if to say "Mama, are you THAT stupid? It's cold out there!" They waited until the sun was up and the frost in the front yard was gone, before wanting to go out.
They are happily awaiting their food and I must admit, it did smell good. It's cooling now. Macaroni, beef, cheese, carrots, peas and stock. Now that they are all older, I find myself having to cook for them more often, as they have all got picky in their dotage. They all love macaroni, and a pound or so in the pan, cooks up plenty for the 4 of them. Some days I add a pound of sausage meat and 1/4 slab of the meltable cheese sauce with a couple of stock cubes, others the cheese along with canned cream of chicken soup and some canned dog food in gravy (so that they think it's human food) LOL. Having to get sneaky now as they don't want it straight from the can any more, nor do they like any of the dry that they used to pig out on. They do like the New Balance chubs, so I get a few of those each week, to ring the changes.
Have just prepped a double chicken breast with stuffing, coated with bacon, wrapped in foil,and put in the oven on a low 250 to slow cook for when hubby comes in later, when I'll just unwrap the foil and turn the oven to 425 to crisp up the bacon. I've been fancying it for a couple of days but it was in the fridge and took 3 days to defrost, and even then I had to leave it out about an hour, to make sure it was all the way through.
After dinner tonight, I'll be slicing the leftover chicken to use in sandwiches, and in soups and salads. Since there's only me and hubby, these double breasts (they weigh about 2lbs each) give us meat for quite a few dishes, not just one meal.
My dogs do not approve either! At 5.30 this morning, when I called them to go out for their first potty run of the day, I got barely wriggled ears and a raised eyebrow. All 4 looked at me with something akin to scorn, as if to say "Mama, are you THAT stupid? It's cold out there!" They waited until the sun was up and the frost in the front yard was gone, before wanting to go out.
They are happily awaiting their food and I must admit, it did smell good. It's cooling now. Macaroni, beef, cheese, carrots, peas and stock. Now that they are all older, I find myself having to cook for them more often, as they have all got picky in their dotage. They all love macaroni, and a pound or so in the pan, cooks up plenty for the 4 of them. Some days I add a pound of sausage meat and 1/4 slab of the meltable cheese sauce with a couple of stock cubes, others the cheese along with canned cream of chicken soup and some canned dog food in gravy (so that they think it's human food) LOL. Having to get sneaky now as they don't want it straight from the can any more, nor do they like any of the dry that they used to pig out on. They do like the New Balance chubs, so I get a few of those each week, to ring the changes.
Have just prepped a double chicken breast with stuffing, coated with bacon, wrapped in foil,and put in the oven on a low 250 to slow cook for when hubby comes in later, when I'll just unwrap the foil and turn the oven to 425 to crisp up the bacon. I've been fancying it for a couple of days but it was in the fridge and took 3 days to defrost, and even then I had to leave it out about an hour, to make sure it was all the way through.
After dinner tonight, I'll be slicing the leftover chicken to use in sandwiches, and in soups and salads. Since there's only me and hubby, these double breasts (they weigh about 2lbs each) give us meat for quite a few dishes, not just one meal.
Friday, October 27, 2017
Fall Weather and Memories of Autumn Past
It was so chilly this morning, I wasn't sure if it was Winter! I've been waiting for the cooler weather but not in the 30s! It was very nippy at 5.30am when I let my dogs out into the yard, for their morning potty run. Now though, the sun is out, and we are in the 60s and supposed to hit 70 later this afternoon.
I've always loved Autumn, I've enjoyed seeing the colour changes on the trees, and saying goodbye to the hot and humid days of Summer.
Growing up, it meant conker fights at school, chestnuts roasting in braziers in the London markets as you walked through, the fun of November 5th and Bonfire Night (Guy Fawke's Night).
In my Junior School days, it meant the school Harvest Festival, and the beginning of preparing for the Christmas Nativity play.
Our Harvest Festival, the teachers would set up 3 or 4 long tables and decorate them with Autumn Decor, and for a few days everyone would bring in foodstuffs that would later be shared among the elderly in our community. There was always a huge loaf in the centre, shaped like a wheatsheaf, and then fresh fruits and vegetables would be added to the display, and canned foods. At the end of the 2 or 3 days of collecting, the items would be sorted by staff and some chosen "helpers" from the 4th year, divided into boxes or bags, and taken around to "old people" in the streets surrounding the school.
We all loved our harvest festival assembly service were we'd sing hymns like "We Plough The Fields and Scatter" with great gusto.
For the whole of the Autumn Term, we'd be preparing for the Nativity Play for Christmas. The whole school took part and it's amazing how they pulled it all together.
The choir provided many of the carols throughout the play, although some included audience participation as well, so much time was spent in practices. After the cast for the play was chosen, there were then lines to be learned, and rehearsal after rehearsal, of different parts. Then, the week before the actual presentation, there were full rehearsals of the whole thing, from start to finish, narrator, choir, and play itself.
George Tomlinson was an amazing school, and included everyone who wanted to take part. In those days we were less politically correct and less "offended" by divisions of race or religion. My friend, Stephanie, despite being Jewish, was in the choir, and 2 Muslim boys in my class were in the play, and all of their parents were in the audience to see them perform. This was 1965 though, so - in my neck of the woods - we kids all just got along, and the differences were more of an "oh wow, so what do you believe in then?" when talking about religion, or in learning the cultures of our friends.
Later, when I was at Leyton County High School For Girls, I was one of the 2 Social Services Representatives for my class, and we actually helped organize the Harvest Festival and food distribution there, along with organizing visitations to local elderly and shut-ins throughout the year.
I've always loved Autumn, I've enjoyed seeing the colour changes on the trees, and saying goodbye to the hot and humid days of Summer.
Growing up, it meant conker fights at school, chestnuts roasting in braziers in the London markets as you walked through, the fun of November 5th and Bonfire Night (Guy Fawke's Night).
In my Junior School days, it meant the school Harvest Festival, and the beginning of preparing for the Christmas Nativity play.
Our Harvest Festival, the teachers would set up 3 or 4 long tables and decorate them with Autumn Decor, and for a few days everyone would bring in foodstuffs that would later be shared among the elderly in our community. There was always a huge loaf in the centre, shaped like a wheatsheaf, and then fresh fruits and vegetables would be added to the display, and canned foods. At the end of the 2 or 3 days of collecting, the items would be sorted by staff and some chosen "helpers" from the 4th year, divided into boxes or bags, and taken around to "old people" in the streets surrounding the school.
We all loved our harvest festival assembly service were we'd sing hymns like "We Plough The Fields and Scatter" with great gusto.
For the whole of the Autumn Term, we'd be preparing for the Nativity Play for Christmas. The whole school took part and it's amazing how they pulled it all together.
The choir provided many of the carols throughout the play, although some included audience participation as well, so much time was spent in practices. After the cast for the play was chosen, there were then lines to be learned, and rehearsal after rehearsal, of different parts. Then, the week before the actual presentation, there were full rehearsals of the whole thing, from start to finish, narrator, choir, and play itself.
George Tomlinson was an amazing school, and included everyone who wanted to take part. In those days we were less politically correct and less "offended" by divisions of race or religion. My friend, Stephanie, despite being Jewish, was in the choir, and 2 Muslim boys in my class were in the play, and all of their parents were in the audience to see them perform. This was 1965 though, so - in my neck of the woods - we kids all just got along, and the differences were more of an "oh wow, so what do you believe in then?" when talking about religion, or in learning the cultures of our friends.
Later, when I was at Leyton County High School For Girls, I was one of the 2 Social Services Representatives for my class, and we actually helped organize the Harvest Festival and food distribution there, along with organizing visitations to local elderly and shut-ins throughout the year.
Monday, October 23, 2017
Samuel and Mary Ann Poyser Grave
In Loving Memory
of
My Dear Wife
Mary Ann Poyser
Who Died September 16 1936
aged 50 years
She bade no-one her last farewell
she said goodbye to none
Her spirit flew before we knew
O God thy will be done
and Samuel Poyser
Husband of the above
Who died 17 October 1956
aged 70
Reunited in Gods keeping
Polly and Sam
The is also a stone open book that reads:-
Rest on dear father
thy labours o'er,
Thy willing hands
will toil no more,
A faithful father
true and kind,
No friend on earth
like thee we find.
and on the right hand page:-
A loveable life
A peaceful sunset
A beautiful memory
The name of the stone mason is A. Elfes of Upton Park.
Who Was Edward Lewis?
Edward Lewis was my grandfather
Edward Thomas Lewis, was born 23rd October 1913. The address on his birth certificate is 48 Columbia Square in Hackney.
He had three brothers, William, John, and George, and 2 sisters, Matilda known as Tilly, and Lillian known as Lilly. Sadly, not much was really known about his side of the family and it has taken a lot of digging to find out about them.
He had three brothers, William, John, and George, and 2 sisters, Matilda known as Tilly, and Lillian known as Lilly. Sadly, not much was really known about his side of the family and it has taken a lot of digging to find out about them.
My grandmother always told me that he "pursued her" and wouldn't take no for an answer. I believe they met when he was 17 (and she 22, his age being one of the reasons she simply did not take him seriously at first).
However, he managed to persuade her to become his wife, and they married on 25th April 1936 at Holy Trinity Church in Canning Town.
The 1936 electoral rolls show them living at 23 Shacklewell Lane in Hackney; this would have been their first home together as it was the year they married.
They produced 2 children - my mother, Sylvia (1937) and my aunt, Irene (1940).
During WWII, he was in the Royal Signals and spent time in Pune (Poona) in India.
I am amazed by how young he was - probably only 23-25 or thereabouts - in this picture. I so wish I could get copies of his military records, as I know they would be able to tell me more about his Army career.
He sent a lot of photographs to my grandmother whilst in India, and from what he wrote on them he missed her terribly.
In the late 1950's he was working on Kingsland Road in Dalston, for a lumber company named King and Scarborough. They were situated next to a bridge and were alongside the canal. He drove a lorry for the company, and sometimes I went with him when I was really young. I can remember him backing the lorry towards the canal and being terrified we were going to go in the water. I was maybe 3 or 4 at the time.
This was his King and Scarborough lorry, and was parked outside of the 9a Marlborough Avenue, London Fields, E9 address in April of 1962. Behind the lorry, to the right is Shrubland Road, and in the empty space behind the fence, is what looks like the remains of a bomb crater. This area did not stay empty for long. In the sixties, demand for housing in inner London, saw blocks of flats going up all over, and this site soon sported a huge high rise.
If you look closely, midway along Shrubland Road there is a rag and bone man's cart and his horse. Do they even exist anymore? I can still hear the echo of his cry "Any old iron?"
When King and Scarborough went out of business, he began working at the Hackney Baths as a boilerman, and later at the Eastway Laundry at Hackney Wick. When my nan picked me up from my house in Leytonstone, the bus would take us by Hackney Wick on the way to London Fields.
My grandfather was a man of many talents. He played a trumpet, and kept it in a velvet lined case. As he grew older, he got it out less and less, though. He also had welding/soldering skills and used to repair televisions - when they had the picture tubes in. He'd set it up on the table in the living room and the smell of soldering would soon fill the small room.
The flat at 9a Marlborough Avenue was small - one bedroom, bathroom, living room and tiny kitchen. I think originally it was just a house, and the council decided to make it into 2 flats, one upstairs and one downstairs. My grandparents lived in the upstairs flat, and had a sliding door leading upstairs, to the left as you came in the front door.
His one vice was his smoking - he rolled his own cigarettes using Old Holborn tobacco out of a tin. My nan would buy 1/2 oz packets of Old Holborn, and he would empty it into his tin where he also kept his Rizla rolling papers.
Although I don't remember him ever going to church on a Sunday, he would still "dress" in his "Sunday best" - clean, pressed shirt with a collar - as was the style in those days even among the working class.
I grew up knowing that my granpop loved me dearly, but one of my memories takes on a different light when viewed with adult eyes. During one of our holiday treks from London through Hampshire (with a stopover in the New Forest) and on to Somerset, Devon and Cornwall, we stopped at one of our favourite places which was a lay-by with a huge pile of asphalt at one end. I used to love to run up the "hill" and have the shiny black pieces ripple and fall, crunching under my feet as they did so.
This particular time though, a chicken came strutting out from the woods next to the lay-by. I fed it bread and talked to it, much to the amusement of both my grandparents, although my request for it as a pet was met with "well, if it's here on the way back ..." fully expecting it to be gone on the return trip a week or so later. However, my happiness was complete - and my granpop's problems only just begun - as there waiting for us when we stopped the following week, was my chicken.
I was about 6 or 7, and you have to understand - that chicken was my friend. So, unable to ignore my pleas any more, my granpop set about trying to catch it for me. He chased it, he coaxed it, he even made a lasso and laid the noose part on the ground and tried to trap it while I fed it, but the wily chicken managed to avoid him and he came up empty-handed.
Now though, I wonder whether if he had caught it, would it have been as a pet for me or as dinner in the saucepan on the Primus that night? I guess that's something I'll never know.
My grandparent's grave at the little churchyard at Banham in Norfolk, within sight of the home they had planned for their retirement, Sunny View, at Overcross.
My cousin, Wendy, and her family, take care of it and she took this pic the last time she was there.
My cousin, Wendy, and her family, take care of it and she took this pic the last time she was there.
More About Me
I was born in 1955, in Highgate Hospital, London, from where Dick Whittington is supposed to have heard the sound of Bow Bells. That makes me a true cockney.
A picture of me with Aunt Maud, at Broadstairs - the East Enders seaside of choice in the 1950's. I was about a year old.
Cockney Rhyming Slang
Resource of the cockney dialect. Some expressions I hadn't heard of before, so it is still evolving.
East London History
My roots are in London, I grew up in the East End. These are some of the places I have found that have enriched my searching.
East of London Family History Society
A complete site focusing on the history of families in London's East End. Message boards, optional membership and magazine, all manner of interesting info and links.
London Ancestor
A mine of information, mostly from before 1880. Extracts and transcripts of directories and manuscripts, lots of genealogy data and Greater London history.
Toby and John's Transport History brought back so many memories of the buses that I used to ride on as a child, all over London. I can remember "electric" buses, which I suppose were really trolley buses, sometime in the late 1950's or early 1960's. Toby and John have worked really hard on this site to give you lots of pics and history.
The London Transport Museum is another interesting site too. Lots of memories. Makes me realise I'm getting old(er) when my childhood is the stuff that museums are made of!
I grew up in Leytonstone, but spent a lot of my childhood in Hackney/Dalston/Shoreditch/Liverpool Street areas as well as touring England's West country a lot during Summer holidays, with my grandparents. My granpop would drive from London and we would spend out first night in a clearing in the New Forest, in Hampshire.
Every morning the ponies would come up the road and gather around us, grazing, curious and waiting to see what goodies we would offer. I can remember the smell of those crisp green mornings, my nan cooking breakfast on an old Primus stove so that bacon frying mingled with the woody forest smell. I remember the washing of face an hands, and all the other bits, with a bowl and wash cloth, Pears soap being the order of the day to keep my skin soft and clear.
Here is a picture of me at 2 years old.
In those days they used to have a yearly Miss Pears competition for little girls up to 12 years of age, and the winner was used as the poster child for the upcoming year. You can still find illustrations of some of these old posters. I never achieved my childhood dream of becoming Miss Pears - but neither did a lot of other little girls of the time, either, so I don't feel so bad now.
A pic of me with my nan's dog, Fluff, at 2 Cherbury Street Hoxton, in the backyard.
When my nan and granpop moved into the maisonette, Fluff went to live with my Aunt Irene in Manor Park. At that time, the privy was still out in the back yard and you had to go to the end of the path. Fluff was also out in the back yard, and my dad was terrified of her and for some reason she didn't like him either. His need to go to the privy would be postponed until he couldn't hold it any longer, and it'd be a mad dash for him to get to the privy before Fluff could chase him.
A picture of me with Aunt Maud, at Broadstairs - the East Enders seaside of choice in the 1950's. I was about a year old.
Cockney Rhyming Slang
Resource of the cockney dialect. Some expressions I hadn't heard of before, so it is still evolving.
East London History
My roots are in London, I grew up in the East End. These are some of the places I have found that have enriched my searching.
East of London Family History Society
A complete site focusing on the history of families in London's East End. Message boards, optional membership and magazine, all manner of interesting info and links.
London Ancestor
A mine of information, mostly from before 1880. Extracts and transcripts of directories and manuscripts, lots of genealogy data and Greater London history.
Toby and John's Transport History brought back so many memories of the buses that I used to ride on as a child, all over London. I can remember "electric" buses, which I suppose were really trolley buses, sometime in the late 1950's or early 1960's. Toby and John have worked really hard on this site to give you lots of pics and history.
The London Transport Museum is another interesting site too. Lots of memories. Makes me realise I'm getting old(er) when my childhood is the stuff that museums are made of!
I grew up in Leytonstone, but spent a lot of my childhood in Hackney/Dalston/Shoreditch/Liverpool Street areas as well as touring England's West country a lot during Summer holidays, with my grandparents. My granpop would drive from London and we would spend out first night in a clearing in the New Forest, in Hampshire.
Every morning the ponies would come up the road and gather around us, grazing, curious and waiting to see what goodies we would offer. I can remember the smell of those crisp green mornings, my nan cooking breakfast on an old Primus stove so that bacon frying mingled with the woody forest smell. I remember the washing of face an hands, and all the other bits, with a bowl and wash cloth, Pears soap being the order of the day to keep my skin soft and clear.
Here is a picture of me at 2 years old.
In those days they used to have a yearly Miss Pears competition for little girls up to 12 years of age, and the winner was used as the poster child for the upcoming year. You can still find illustrations of some of these old posters. I never achieved my childhood dream of becoming Miss Pears - but neither did a lot of other little girls of the time, either, so I don't feel so bad now.
A pic of me with my nan's dog, Fluff, at 2 Cherbury Street Hoxton, in the backyard.
When my nan and granpop moved into the maisonette, Fluff went to live with my Aunt Irene in Manor Park. At that time, the privy was still out in the back yard and you had to go to the end of the path. Fluff was also out in the back yard, and my dad was terrified of her and for some reason she didn't like him either. His need to go to the privy would be postponed until he couldn't hold it any longer, and it'd be a mad dash for him to get to the privy before Fluff could chase him.
Schooldays
I was one of those children who loved school when I was younger. From starting in the infants at George Tomlinson School until the day I left the Juniors in the Summer of 1966, my schooldays were one of the best times of my life.
I was lucky to be a child who loved learning, and I had people in my life who also cherished it. My mother had won a scholarship to the Blue Coat School when she was younger but had been unable to accept as her parents could not afford the uniforms and other necessities. My nan had fostered in me a love of history and art, and spoke a lot about the differences when she was a child. A steady stream of Ladybird Books and I-Spy booklets throughout my younger years helped keep me occupied as well as providing additional learning materials. That these are still available today, some 50 odd years after I was an avid fan, is testimony to the fact that they are fun and kids love them still!
Miss Lynes Class, either 1964-1965 or 1965-1966.
Front Row (from left): ?, ?, Ian Burns, Robert Dear, Keith Waite, ?, Saeed Sharif;
2nd Row:Sarah?, Joyce Carne, Elaine O'Dell, Janet Baxter, ?, Jane Barlow, Anne Gage, Katie Beinder, ?, Stephanie Baum:
3rd Row: ?, Jacqueline Austin, Margaret O'Connor, Rosemary Lammas, Alison Tidy, me, Toulla Karlettis, Shan Fisher, Trevor Stannard:
4th Row: Steven Hicks, ?, Alan, Philip, ?, ?, Stephen Gross, ?, ?, John Byrne.
If anyone can give me the names of the other pupils, please email me at:
I only had 2 teachers in the 4 years that I was in the Junior School. The first 2 years, I was in Mrs Stark's class, and the last 2, Miss Lynes. In the infants school, I believe my first teacher was Miss Martin, and then I was in Mrs Isaacs class. I remember for the first couple of weeks, sitting on the teacher's lap during story time (just before the end of the day). The parents would start congregating outside, and I'd see my mum with the big maroon Royale coach-built pram, out there and start to bawl. I was a bit of a cry-baby, I suppose.
One of my worst memories of the infants school was one of the dinner ladies, Mrs Girling, and I think she hated me from the beginning. I was a picky eater, did not like milk or custards, rice puddings, anything made with milk. My mum even sent a note to say that I didn't like them. Mrs Girling would swamp my dessert with custard or blancmange, and for a few times would force me to eat it. Until the day that I was really sick and vomited everywhere. After that, she never did it again, but always gave me this evil look as though it was my fault and not her spitefulness that had caused the incident.
The Headmistress in the Infants School was a Mrs Edwards, and she was a darling. Always had a hand available to hold, or a lap to sit on. Smiles for everyone. She retired from George Tomlinson, after I went "up" into the Juniors. We really did go "up" as the Infants had the bottom floor of the school buildings and the Juniors had the top. Each had its own playground area, the Infants had a Jungle Gym while the Juniors had a football pitch and netball court marked out on the playground surface.
Some of the games we used to play are in a book called Playground Games . A couple of the ball games, my nieces were playing only 2 years ago, like "Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, Touch the Ground". It was amazing hearing these (very modern and sophisticated) little girls playing a game that I had played when I was their age. I remember "Colours", "Letters", "Stones", "Jacks", "Peep Behind the Curtain", "Queenie, Queenie, Who's Got The Ball?" and even playing "Whose Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf?" up until I was about 10 years old. How many of today's ten year olds would even play innocent games like that now? Everything is electronic games, video games and CD-Rom's. They are so grown up now, at such early ages.
I was lucky to be a child who loved learning, and I had people in my life who also cherished it. My mother had won a scholarship to the Blue Coat School when she was younger but had been unable to accept as her parents could not afford the uniforms and other necessities. My nan had fostered in me a love of history and art, and spoke a lot about the differences when she was a child. A steady stream of Ladybird Books and I-Spy booklets throughout my younger years helped keep me occupied as well as providing additional learning materials. That these are still available today, some 50 odd years after I was an avid fan, is testimony to the fact that they are fun and kids love them still!
Miss Lynes Class, either 1964-1965 or 1965-1966.
Front Row (from left): ?, ?, Ian Burns, Robert Dear, Keith Waite, ?, Saeed Sharif;
2nd Row:Sarah?, Joyce Carne, Elaine O'Dell, Janet Baxter, ?, Jane Barlow, Anne Gage, Katie Beinder, ?, Stephanie Baum:
3rd Row: ?, Jacqueline Austin, Margaret O'Connor, Rosemary Lammas, Alison Tidy, me, Toulla Karlettis, Shan Fisher, Trevor Stannard:
4th Row: Steven Hicks, ?, Alan, Philip, ?, ?, Stephen Gross, ?, ?, John Byrne.
If anyone can give me the names of the other pupils, please email me at:
rosesavonshoppe@aol.com
One of my worst memories of the infants school was one of the dinner ladies, Mrs Girling, and I think she hated me from the beginning. I was a picky eater, did not like milk or custards, rice puddings, anything made with milk. My mum even sent a note to say that I didn't like them. Mrs Girling would swamp my dessert with custard or blancmange, and for a few times would force me to eat it. Until the day that I was really sick and vomited everywhere. After that, she never did it again, but always gave me this evil look as though it was my fault and not her spitefulness that had caused the incident.
The Headmistress in the Infants School was a Mrs Edwards, and she was a darling. Always had a hand available to hold, or a lap to sit on. Smiles for everyone. She retired from George Tomlinson, after I went "up" into the Juniors. We really did go "up" as the Infants had the bottom floor of the school buildings and the Juniors had the top. Each had its own playground area, the Infants had a Jungle Gym while the Juniors had a football pitch and netball court marked out on the playground surface.
Some of the games we used to play are in a book called Playground Games . A couple of the ball games, my nieces were playing only 2 years ago, like "Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, Touch the Ground". It was amazing hearing these (very modern and sophisticated) little girls playing a game that I had played when I was their age. I remember "Colours", "Letters", "Stones", "Jacks", "Peep Behind the Curtain", "Queenie, Queenie, Who's Got The Ball?" and even playing "Whose Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf?" up until I was about 10 years old. How many of today's ten year olds would even play innocent games like that now? Everything is electronic games, video games and CD-Rom's. They are so grown up now, at such early ages.
Mrs Stark didn't care much for me , but I still flourished under her tutelage.I was one of those kids you could give a book to and I'd get my nose lost into it. I loved to write stories, and filled those little red journal books with all manner of tales of Victorian life and all sorts. It was my love of books that got me into BIG trouble! In those days, the class used to be taken to the Leytonstone library for weekly visits and children with a library card were allowed to get books out of the library. Unfortunately, my mother refused to sign the application for me to get a library card. This because, in case of infectious diseases like measles, chicken pox, whooping cough and stuff, back then, if an infectious disease happened in a household, any library books had to be sent to a special place to be sterilized before being put back on the shelf. Well, my mother wanted none of that hassle, so she said I couldn't have a library card. Now, to a child who loves to read, this was like a death sentence. But, if your parents wouldn't sign, the teacher could (with the parents permission and on behalf of the parents) but the books would have to stay at school. My mind worked overtime all that week, but come the final day to hand the cards back in and I was in a panic, so I signed it myself, with my mother's name. I was about 8, but like my granddaughter, Angelica, had pretty good handwriting for a child.Everything was fine, and I began to get books from the library on the weekly class visits, until the day that I got found out! My sister, Therésa, went down with whooping cough, and I can remember us all being traipsed to Dr Mahood's surgery at the top of our street, Queen's Road, and having to suffer the indignities of dropping our drawers and getting whooping cough jabs in our bums. Then, as if that wasn't bad enough, the school was notified of whooping cough in the family ... and a letter came for my mum advising her of the procedure for getting library books sterilized. She asked me what they were talking about, and I LIED and said Mrs Stark had signed the card. This has to be why I don't tell lies now, because instead of making everything better, it created a worse mess. My mother , apparently, called the school and let rip at Mrs Stark, who had no idea what she was talking about. Mrs Stark then asked me , and I had to admit that it was indeed I who had signed the application card. In all fairness, she did not get mad at me. "Rosemary, "she said, "you need to go home and tell your mother that it was you who signed that card." That evening, I made myself ill with worry as to how to own up to the truth. Finally, while my mum was ironing the washing, I told her. She sent me to bed with "Wait until your father get's home!" ringing in my ears. This really hurt as I was such a little goody goody usually, but more to the point because beloved library ticket had gone to the land of the never to be seen again, and because to me this was the absolute worst thing that could happen. Every class trip to the library after that was a constant reminder of the wrong I had done,and a punishment for me in that I could not take out books any longer. |
First Memories
One of the first memories that I have is of living at 47 Southern Drive, in Loughton (see picture). I was about 3 or 4 years old. Outside of my mum's bedroom window (on the pavement, near the kerb) there was a tree, and a bird had made its nest in there. There was a storm, and one of the baby birds fell out. I can remember my mum going outside and picking it up out of the puddle and bringing it into the house, carefully drying it off, and then carrying it against her chest for warmth and so that it could sense a heartbeat.
47 Southern Drive
I don't think it survived very long, but I have that memory indelibly etched in my mind. The house still looks very much the same as it did all those years ago. I think the tree was to the right of the upstairs window, so the shadow on the left of this picture would be from the same tree. This was kindly sent to me from the current owner of the house, in 1996. She remembered me as being "a bright little girl" and my sister being a baby in the pram.
My second memory was in the maisonette. I was staying with my nan and granpop while my mum was in hospital having my sister, Stephanie. I was four and a half years old. I remember I was lying in the (hearth) tiled bit of the fireplace (it was my favourite spot and my nan used to put me a pillow down there and a blanket to lie on). We were watching "Wagon Train" - one of my granpop's favourite shows at the time (thus by extension, my favourite show too!) when my dad arrived to tell us Stephanie had been born. Now I admit to being quite pleased to have a little sister - BUT THEY TURNED OFF "WAGON TRAIN". Surely nothing could merit such a thing! I remember being totally upset because of it.
Me, about 2 or 3.
I was about 3 years old when this was taken.
I was about 6 years old when this was taken.
Poyser name meaning and heraldry
From my grandmother, Rose Poyser's, side of the family
Poyser, Poyzer
Weigher, scale-maker. Superintendent of a public weighing machine (old French).
Name appears in Domesday Book, England 1086/1087.
Poyser family common in Staffordshire and Derbyshire
Weigher, scale-maker. Superintendent of a public weighing machine (old French).
Name appears in Domesday Book, England 1086/1087.
Poyser family common in Staffordshire and Derbyshire
Blazon: Asure, fess erminois between two lions passant and counterpassant, each crowned with an Eastern coronet.
Trans: Blue, an ermine military belt or girdle of honour between two silver
lions walking in opposite directions crowned with an Eastern coronet of gold.
Azure: Blue. Signifying loyalty and truth.
Erminois: Gold, with black spots. Signifying nobility.
Coronet: Signifying victory in battle.
Gold: Signifying generosity and elevation of mind.
Stag: Shows centered on top of the coat of arms in the heraldry that I have, although not on this diagram. Signifying fleetness, longevity and sometimes seclusion. In rose, signifying military fortitude.
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Poyser, PoyzerFamily motto: Grace me guide. |
Sunday, October 22, 2017
A beautiful Sunday
The weather today is gorgeous!
I had an AVON delivery to do today down in Hickory Tavern, so we were out and about in it. We stopped beforehand, for lunch, at Mei Mei House in Simpsonville, and stocked my brochure rack there. It was nice to be able to go in (with my walker) and chat to Maggie, they are like family.
The drive down was nice, there was next to no traffic, sun was shining, we had the windows open and the air just blew through; it mussed my hair up a bit, but no worries!
Hope you are enjoying a lovely day.
Monday, October 16, 2017
Family History Frolics
I do love "doing" my family history, or rather, exploring the people who came before me and whose blood runs through my veins. I find it so interesting, the digging, and definitely frustrating at times, but when you get a breakthrough it's a big YAY!!!!! Just makes my day.
I have just sent off for 2 more death certificates, one is my great-grandmother, and the other is her mother. They are on my maternal grandfather's side of the family, his mother and his grandmother.
It is sad that I had no connection with my father, as I have started working on his side and have found out quite a bit about him from my sibling from his marriage, but because I didn't know him or his parents, the interest is somewhat less than it is for my mother's side, the grandparents who raised me when I was young, and whose stories I listened to growing up.
This is one of my favourite pictures of my granpop, Edward Lewis, as a young man, with his younger brother, George. Despite having had the photo for over 30 years, the identity of the younger person in the photo was only discovered last year. I had always thought my granpop was the youngest child.
His side of the family history has always been quite private so discovering a lot of it was quite difficult, added to which the last name, Lewis, and first names of the children, William, John, Edward, and Matilda, that I was searching for. Such common names at the beginning of the twentieth century, and worse, so many families within the same area!
What I have discovered on his side, has made me more aware of the genetic influence on my health.
He died of an aortic aneurysm in 1978. As yet, I have not been able to identify his father's death so know nothing about it. However, his mother's father, George Burton, died of "cerebral congestion, 8 days" which, on further research, seems to implicate high blood pressure/stroke.
Unfortunately, on my grandmother's side of the family (his wife, Rose nee Poyser), she died in 1981 of a haemorrhagic stroke, her father Samuel Poyser died of a heart attack and her mother (Mary Ann nee Hunt) "suddenly at home" so it seems cardio-vascular stuff isn't good on her side, either.
And then, her mother's father, Charles Hunt, had bronchitis, asthma and heart failure. He is the first (so far) that I have found with asthma, which my mother, my son, my granddaughter and myself, have all suffered from.
Having my DNA tested also provided interesting information on the possible origins of my blood type. I am O Negative, and that seems to be more prevalent in an area in the Iberian Peninsula than anywhere else in the world, cementing that with the DNA areas that make up my ancestral origins.
Likewise, my red hair. Despite me being English born (English through and through, as I thought) 39% of my DNA is Irish and only 28% is from Great Britain, the rest moves off to the East. I've always said we English are a bunch of mongrels, we were conquered by so many, Danes, Vikings, Gauls, Romans, Goths and Visigoths, and more than I can remember. All of whom raped and pillaged as they went.
Other interesting things that have come to light concerning my hair and blood group - red headed people tend to bleed more easily (explaining my haemorrhage after having my son) and also can have issues with pain killing meds (as I have done) whereby the drugs that work on others make no difference to my pain (one of the reasons I now use essential oils). It was quite fascinating, answering unasked questions but putting many things to rest with an "ahhh ok".
I've been delving now for 23 years, and still so much more to discover.
Enjoy your day
I have just sent off for 2 more death certificates, one is my great-grandmother, and the other is her mother. They are on my maternal grandfather's side of the family, his mother and his grandmother.
It is sad that I had no connection with my father, as I have started working on his side and have found out quite a bit about him from my sibling from his marriage, but because I didn't know him or his parents, the interest is somewhat less than it is for my mother's side, the grandparents who raised me when I was young, and whose stories I listened to growing up.
This is one of my favourite pictures of my granpop, Edward Lewis, as a young man, with his younger brother, George. Despite having had the photo for over 30 years, the identity of the younger person in the photo was only discovered last year. I had always thought my granpop was the youngest child.
His side of the family history has always been quite private so discovering a lot of it was quite difficult, added to which the last name, Lewis, and first names of the children, William, John, Edward, and Matilda, that I was searching for. Such common names at the beginning of the twentieth century, and worse, so many families within the same area!
What I have discovered on his side, has made me more aware of the genetic influence on my health.
He died of an aortic aneurysm in 1978. As yet, I have not been able to identify his father's death so know nothing about it. However, his mother's father, George Burton, died of "cerebral congestion, 8 days" which, on further research, seems to implicate high blood pressure/stroke.
Unfortunately, on my grandmother's side of the family (his wife, Rose nee Poyser), she died in 1981 of a haemorrhagic stroke, her father Samuel Poyser died of a heart attack and her mother (Mary Ann nee Hunt) "suddenly at home" so it seems cardio-vascular stuff isn't good on her side, either.
And then, her mother's father, Charles Hunt, had bronchitis, asthma and heart failure. He is the first (so far) that I have found with asthma, which my mother, my son, my granddaughter and myself, have all suffered from.
Having my DNA tested also provided interesting information on the possible origins of my blood type. I am O Negative, and that seems to be more prevalent in an area in the Iberian Peninsula than anywhere else in the world, cementing that with the DNA areas that make up my ancestral origins.
Likewise, my red hair. Despite me being English born (English through and through, as I thought) 39% of my DNA is Irish and only 28% is from Great Britain, the rest moves off to the East. I've always said we English are a bunch of mongrels, we were conquered by so many, Danes, Vikings, Gauls, Romans, Goths and Visigoths, and more than I can remember. All of whom raped and pillaged as they went.
Other interesting things that have come to light concerning my hair and blood group - red headed people tend to bleed more easily (explaining my haemorrhage after having my son) and also can have issues with pain killing meds (as I have done) whereby the drugs that work on others make no difference to my pain (one of the reasons I now use essential oils). It was quite fascinating, answering unasked questions but putting many things to rest with an "ahhh ok".
I've been delving now for 23 years, and still so much more to discover.
Enjoy your day
Saturday, October 14, 2017
No, I am NOT on a diet!
Yes, I am losing weight, but NO! I am not "on a diet" nor am I "dieting". I am however watching the foods that I eat, trying to keep them within certain dietary guidelines and making better choices.
By it's very statement "going on a diet" seems to imply that, once the goal is achieved, one can go "off the diet" at the end of it, which really isn't true. In my case weight loss, but for those suffering from the other issue of weight gain, is a process of undoing bad habits and gaining better ones, learning about your foods and what they do for your body, and making decisions based on that. The plan is to change your way of thinking as well as being more aware of what you are putting in your mouth.
People's dietary needs differ, there are so many variables, height, weight, activity for starters but then, also, dietary issues where maybe certain nutrients that are good for most aren't good for someone else (potassium, for instance) or where certain foods really must be limited because of underlying conditions (diabetes, for example). Each person has to get to know their body, get to know its needs, and then work with it for nourishment, whether to maintain weight and physique, build it or to lose weight and tone up.
This has been an eventful past 12 months for me.
Beginning in September of 2016, my health took a decided turn for the worse.
Now, to many, my health may have seemed bad to begin with. Arthritis and osteoporosis have resulted in limited mobility, meaning I was spending most of my time in my bed, and needing to be pushed in a wheelchair if I went anywhere. Around the house, I used a Zimmer frame for assistance, or to get from my bed to the bathroom, I sequenced grabbing my cupboard handle to help me get upright, then held onto my bookshelf, the door handle, the sink and finally the bathroom shelf, to make it. Coming back, there was kind of a long falling onto the bed from the bookshelf holding, LOL.
Hereditary high blood pressure and high cholesterol are dealt with (unfortunately) with a plethora of meds, as is my underactive thyroid, however as far as colds and opportunistic infections, my doctor has always been happy with how little I seemed to succumb to.
Up until last September my blood pressure had been under control for about 10 years.
I also have issues with drugs, my body doesn't like them, so my doctor and I have had to carefully get me to where I was at, and work with my tolerances. My doctor is a darling, and a year ago we were happily discussing how we might be able to cut my drugs and utilize more natural methods (she knows I prefer natural).
What happened was that the insurance decided they wanted to take me off Crestor and give me a generic ... which should have been ok ... but wasn't. I started having issues, and my doctor said it was medically necessary for me to go back to the name brand. I expected that to fix the problem ... it didn't. My blood pressure had soared sky high and my doctor upped my meds for that. Then I started getting the racing heartbeat, and palpitations. She took my meds back down and I ended up on a heart monitor. I am now under a cardiologist for A-Fib, and am on blood thinners.
In all of this, I really started pushing to find natural things to help the drugs do their work. I already ate low sodium, but I started trying to find ways to cut it even more. I love fruits and salad veggies, and upped them too but that then caused me a drastic lessening of kidney function (down to 37%) due to the potassium in fruits and veggies, so I also had to look into eating low potassium and keeping track of it.
For me, all of these things are important considerations when I am choosing and eating a food.
For someone else, the considerations will be different. We each have to get to know our bodies and work with them, to better our health.
I have gone from this:
To this:
and my journey is not over yet. I still have a long way to go, but I am taking it slowly, and things have changed.
I am so much more aware now of the content of foods and yes, I will have a cheeseburger sometimes, a plain one or a kids size fries with no salt but when people with me are wanting the big Macs or Whoppers fully loaded, I am soooo conscious of all the fat and salt they are consuming.
I still eat the foods I love, just don't want some of them any more and don't miss them. I've found substitutes. I still eat chocolate (I freeze minis and fun size Musketeers and stuff like that) and I manage to eat some of the fruits and veggies that I love by making sure that, for the rest of that day, I am eating maainly foods with no potassium in.
The thing is "dieting' does not work. You have to change your way of thinking and change your habits, because this change is going to be lifelong. t has to be permanent. If you go "on a diet" and then achieve your weight loss and go "off a diet" and start eating the way that you used to, the weight is going to go back on.
Have a great day, my friends
By it's very statement "going on a diet" seems to imply that, once the goal is achieved, one can go "off the diet" at the end of it, which really isn't true. In my case weight loss, but for those suffering from the other issue of weight gain, is a process of undoing bad habits and gaining better ones, learning about your foods and what they do for your body, and making decisions based on that. The plan is to change your way of thinking as well as being more aware of what you are putting in your mouth.
People's dietary needs differ, there are so many variables, height, weight, activity for starters but then, also, dietary issues where maybe certain nutrients that are good for most aren't good for someone else (potassium, for instance) or where certain foods really must be limited because of underlying conditions (diabetes, for example). Each person has to get to know their body, get to know its needs, and then work with it for nourishment, whether to maintain weight and physique, build it or to lose weight and tone up.
This has been an eventful past 12 months for me.
Beginning in September of 2016, my health took a decided turn for the worse.
Now, to many, my health may have seemed bad to begin with. Arthritis and osteoporosis have resulted in limited mobility, meaning I was spending most of my time in my bed, and needing to be pushed in a wheelchair if I went anywhere. Around the house, I used a Zimmer frame for assistance, or to get from my bed to the bathroom, I sequenced grabbing my cupboard handle to help me get upright, then held onto my bookshelf, the door handle, the sink and finally the bathroom shelf, to make it. Coming back, there was kind of a long falling onto the bed from the bookshelf holding, LOL.
Hereditary high blood pressure and high cholesterol are dealt with (unfortunately) with a plethora of meds, as is my underactive thyroid, however as far as colds and opportunistic infections, my doctor has always been happy with how little I seemed to succumb to.
Up until last September my blood pressure had been under control for about 10 years.
I also have issues with drugs, my body doesn't like them, so my doctor and I have had to carefully get me to where I was at, and work with my tolerances. My doctor is a darling, and a year ago we were happily discussing how we might be able to cut my drugs and utilize more natural methods (she knows I prefer natural).
What happened was that the insurance decided they wanted to take me off Crestor and give me a generic ... which should have been ok ... but wasn't. I started having issues, and my doctor said it was medically necessary for me to go back to the name brand. I expected that to fix the problem ... it didn't. My blood pressure had soared sky high and my doctor upped my meds for that. Then I started getting the racing heartbeat, and palpitations. She took my meds back down and I ended up on a heart monitor. I am now under a cardiologist for A-Fib, and am on blood thinners.
In all of this, I really started pushing to find natural things to help the drugs do their work. I already ate low sodium, but I started trying to find ways to cut it even more. I love fruits and salad veggies, and upped them too but that then caused me a drastic lessening of kidney function (down to 37%) due to the potassium in fruits and veggies, so I also had to look into eating low potassium and keeping track of it.
For me, all of these things are important considerations when I am choosing and eating a food.
For someone else, the considerations will be different. We each have to get to know our bodies and work with them, to better our health.
and my journey is not over yet. I still have a long way to go, but I am taking it slowly, and things have changed.
I am so much more aware now of the content of foods and yes, I will have a cheeseburger sometimes, a plain one or a kids size fries with no salt but when people with me are wanting the big Macs or Whoppers fully loaded, I am soooo conscious of all the fat and salt they are consuming.
I still eat the foods I love, just don't want some of them any more and don't miss them. I've found substitutes. I still eat chocolate (I freeze minis and fun size Musketeers and stuff like that) and I manage to eat some of the fruits and veggies that I love by making sure that, for the rest of that day, I am eating maainly foods with no potassium in.
The thing is "dieting' does not work. You have to change your way of thinking and change your habits, because this change is going to be lifelong. t has to be permanent. If you go "on a diet" and then achieve your weight loss and go "off a diet" and start eating the way that you used to, the weight is going to go back on.
Have a great day, my friends
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