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Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Who Remembers Hat Pins?

There was a time when no self-respecting woman left her home to go grocery shopping, on a day trip, or ANYWHERE without putting on her hat and pinning it into her hair. Even in the 1960s, when I was growing up, my nan went through the ritual before going out.


You can see her in this picture, with me, on holiday, when I was about 7 or 8 (1962/1963) ... no coat ... but wearing her hat.

Hat pins varied from the plain to the glamorous. My nan's was quite plain, about 4" long and topped with a pearl, as was Aunt Maud's (an adopted aunt to our family from when my mum and her sister were young) who is seen here holding me when I was about 2.


This link goes to a page explaining some of the history of hat pins and the photos show how the heads could be quite plain, to suit an outfit/ensemble or very elaborate in design.



Sunday, May 29, 2016

Memorial Day 2016



Remembering all who have given their lives
in the service of our country,
and the families that miss them

Saturday, May 28, 2016

Memorial Day Poetry

Just some poetry I've written over the years to honour our veterans. Hope you enjoy!

Poem for Memorial Day 2010

The crosses line up row on row,
sombre, silent, in the morn -
and in permanent sleep all those below
listen to the piper's early tune.

It matters not when they gave all,
when blood was spilled, which war, or where,
it matters just that they stood tall
and served that flag proudly flying there.

And so remember them, we must,
Too young to die and sadly missed.
Returned from flesh to richer dust,
And by love's tears, and raindrops, kissed.

I hope they hear the bugler's call
and lie not lonely in that earth,
cherished memories of those who that gave all,
remind those left of freedom's worth.

Bless them, bless them, bless them all,
Young men grown old by long left horrors,
who answered their country's desperate call
and kept those days in all their tomorrows.

So lay your wreaths and fly your flags
from fence, and gate, and tree.
Though remnants may be seeming rags
remember those who kept us free.

copyright Rose Dempsey
May 30th 2010



Poem for Memorial Day 2011

Rows upon rows of crosses, 


each, a life once lived. 



A voice no more, a smile once seen, 



they gave all they had to give. 





A silence, now, their companion - 



the sounds of war long gone - 



no gas, no bombs, no bullets tear; 



We say a sad "so long". 





"So long," to all our heroes 



of ward fought, lost and won. 



For mother's sons, long gone and mourned, 



once loved. Each and every one. 





A fleeting day comes once a year, 



a time to stop and pray, 



not only for our fallen 



but those who fight today. 





So, spare a thought for those, today, 



who in the heavens roam, 



remember that they gave their lives 



and never made it home. 





copyright Rose Dempsey 28th May 2011 



Pearl Harbor

A poem to remember Pearl Harbour and those who were there

"A day that will live in infamy," Roosevelt did declare 
speaking of the atrocity and the souls who perished there. 

Young men forever silenced, their laughter heard no more 
on the day the Arizona sunk down to the ocean floor. 

On that day sixty years ago, terror came from up on high 
as squadrons loosed their bombs in that early morning sky, 
and came they on their targets in the harbour far below 
and left not 'til ships were sinking in the watery shallows. 

Black smoke billowed upwards and blocked out clear blue dawn 
flaming oil fanned out on waves, burning men that morn. 
For some who tried to swim away,the enemy did lack 
any compassion whatsoe'er, and shot them in the back. 

Eleven hundred lives were lost, that day so long ago - 
what kind of men they might become, of that we'll never know. 
For most were young, in Spring of life, and destined thus to stay, 
sent into immortality that awful murderous day. 

Their names are etched upon the wall, their sacrifice to see, 
those who perished on the land, on ships, or in the sea. 
And in the hearts of those who knew the face behind each name, 
the sorrow vents its memories as each year comes again. 

The survivors now are grey and bent, their eyes grow ever dim, 
their memories are painful, a poignant human hymn. 
And as with other heroes, these too must honoured be, 
because they and countless others died that we might live life free. 


copyright Rose Dempsey


Thoughts on the Dedication of the World War II Memorial

Like many others, I watched the dedication on tv that day


Amid the sea of faces seated underneath the sun 
were memories of others who to this day had not come. 

Those who weren't invited not because they wouldn't care 
but they gave their lives so long ago that they could not be there. 

Their memories are hidden in the hearts of those who came - 
the sounds of someones laughter that will ne'er be heard again; 
a waft of sweet tobacco once smoked by comrade, young, 
will cause a mind to wonder at who that lad might have become. 

Yet buried are they in lonely graves across an ocean blue, 
row upon row of crosses shows how many died for you. 
For each there is a family, who no more got to see 
the face of one they loved so much who died to keep us free. 

And today a dedication to those who lived and all who died, 
for these, the men and women who in that war fought side by side. 
For some were in the trenches, some stayed behind the lines, 
yet all gave of their very best in that the worst of times. 

And so, 
over half a century later, underneath a searing sun 
to Washington these heroes and heroines had come, 
to dedicate a memorial to all who fought and died, 
to friends they once had fought with, a band of brothers, side by side. 

And songs were sung that brought to each the mood that was back then, 
And tears formed in the rheumy eyes of countless aged men, 
And women also dabbed their eyes remembering times long gone 
This memorial dedication, a World War 2 swansong. 

Granite columns and copper wreaths, and open eagle wings; 
engraved names of battles, of States and other things, 
fountains spraying foam into the air above a lake 
peacefully remember those who gave all for our sake. 

So, as you look remember, and offer up a prayer 
for all the men and women who weren't able to be there 
and silently give a "thank you" that because of them we're free. 
In World War 2, in foreign lands, they died for you and me. 

I made a meme!

Well, for those who do not know me, personally, I am NOT very techy. So, I was approached by a local boy's team to advertise in their program for an upcoming event, the advertising costs going towards helping raise funds along with the sale of the programs. All I had to do was "send my ad" since I had paypaled the fee. But what to do to make it appealing? I have no experience with creating images so was at a loss.  

Then I thought about a meme ... but again had no idea how to go about making one. I said as much to hubby, and he said to google it. Why hadn't I done that before? I've wished so many times that I could do memes. It took me about 5 minutes! I am well chuffed with myself. This old lady is learning quite a few new tricks of late, LOL.

So, here is the meme I made, and although it'll be b/w in the booklet, I think it'll be pretty effective, don't you?


Monday, May 23, 2016

When the road took me to WV to devil Anse

Gosh, it's been many many moons ago now, but back in the early 1990s I took a trip to West Virginia, with friends of mine who came from there. It was to a small town nestled up in the mountains, a mining community where many of the roads weren't even paved, kids still played in the creeks and the homes ran up steep slopes, one after the other.

I loved it!

The old movie theater in the center of town, the High School where my friend's hubby had been one of the football team in his youth, and where not far from town, in a little place called Sarah Ann, they took me to the Hatfield cemetery.

http://www.mywvhome.com/1900s/hatfield.html

It was amazing, standing there, letting the history of the area, the family, and the feud, wash over me and thinking I was actually there.

The statue of Devil Anse is very imposing, and nobody has ever explained to me how a "hillbilly family" from "the mountains" knew where to order it from in Italy! I mean, in this computer age, I could search online, but to find a craftsman in a foreign country, back then ... I'm so very curious as to whose idea it was and how it came about ... but obviously, I will never know as anyone who did is now long gone as well.

Afterwards, we drove by their old house and I had a look around there too. There was a family member there and they spoke with us. It was really interesting. He seemed fascinated that someone from England had even heard of the Hatfields and McCoys.

My friend, Patty, also told me about the massacre at Matewan, a few miles away.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battle_of_Matewan

I love history though, and I love small towns and their stories.

Sunday, May 22, 2016

A 3 Day Weekend

My poor hubby works hard, and most weekends recently, they've wanted him to work overtime, and he has done. The money comes in very handy, obviously, and our bills have been getting paid on time, where for many years we struggled with too much month at the end of the money. He's no spring chicken any more though, and it's like I've always said, some things are just worth more than money - so this week, when they asked, he said "no" and he has had 3 days of sleeping in and then us just getting up and doing what needs doing.

Friday we were out and about all day, delivering AVON and restocking my brochures in a couple of places; yesterday we met up with one lady, and then grocery shopped and bought a new router. Today, we have made a start on what will be my new AVON room.

When my granddaughter lived with us, it was her room. She moved out a couple of months ago, and we decided to convert it back into an AVON room for me. It'll take ages, as with me being disabled, I have 2 speeds, real slow, and resting.

Hubby brought my first tall oak shelf down for me and it's all cleaned and polished except for the 2 sides at the bottom shelf level, and he's going to do those as I cannot bend to reach, from my chair. He'd already done the top ones for me.

This shelf is going to be the new home of my Mrs Albee statuettes and my "Oscars" from President's Club Award Galas over the years that I've been an AVON rep. This October it will be 10 years. It surprises me, it's one of those things that make you go "who'd a thunk it?"

It came at a good time. My walking was getting more difficult, I was "resting" more, my joints ached and creaked more, and even doing the sit-down job I was doing as a call center verifier was beginning to be harder for me. My body refused to work some mornings, and I could not get out of my bed because my back, or my hips or knees, just wouldn't do their job. 

As I lost the self esteem that came from being a reliable employee, and - in a different area of my life - a great C&W dancer - the AVON replaced it as I won awards at President's Club events and received recognition at monthly meet ups.

It's been a good 10 years, and I have the Mrs Albees and "Oscars" to prove it.


My "Oscars"

I remember my upline, Glori, showing me her lovingly displayed Mrs Albees, and me thinking that they were pretty but not my cup of tea. Until I earned one. Then, I realised that getting a Mrs Albee was an accomplishment, a recognition of hard work, of perseverence, and thus began my annual challenge to "make PC" for that next year, to bring home the next Mrs Albee for my collection.


2007 - 2009 Mrs Albees


2010 - 2012 Mrs Albees


2013 - 2015 Mrs Albees


The bottom shelf with the Mrs Albee edition Barbie doll and 3 mini-Mrs Albees

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Memories

They come, unbidden, in the night 
and like a magical journey 
take me back to times long past, 
where I can look with backward glance, 
and wish those times return once more, 
to echo in this brain of mine, 
this harried vault of Father Time. 

In wonderment, I start each trek 
into the depths of times forgotten, 
woven as a piece of cloth, 
the patchwork of times well, or mis-spent; 
yet looking back, one sees no other way 
to live the life of yesterday. 

And so, unbidden, still they come, 
and I, in pleasant warm cocoon 
of peaceful sleep, 
do wallow in them, once again, 
delicious bites of long passed time. 

The voices blur, the faces fade, 
and yet these memories were made 
with so much love, 
and will remain 
within my heart, forever. 
And I will relish each return, 
to that far-off place wherein they hide, 
to delve once more into history, 
into the patchwork of my life.