Friday, July 29, 2016

Ups and downs of a Dempsey week. LOL

It's been a good week overall, but - as usual - a few "bumps" along the way, just to remind us not to get complacent and expect it to always be that way, LOL.

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Hubby had a bad night earlier in the week, and ended up taking the next day off. Thankfully that gave his body time to get itself sorted, and he's been ok since.

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I cooked a "tart" the other night, think it was Tuesday but not sure now, LOL, (it didn't have a lid so can't really call it a pie) that was just a mix of a few ideas, and turned out great. I'd been fancying something with minced beef in, so had hubby grab some (it was supposed to be 93% but he got 90% and it worked ok too). I broke the meat in a pan with a couple of cups of water, and started heating it. Added carrots and onions, 1 veggie OXO and stirred 3 WATKINS gravy mixes into another cup of cold water, then mixed it in and stirred it well as it started bubbling down.

Being lazy now, I use refrigerated pastry, so in a rectangular pan I unrolled the circular pastry sheet. Some of the pastry flapped over the sides. I poured the meat and veggie mix in the pan, and then put the pastry from the sides, over towards the middle.

Next I popped 2 baking potatoes in the microwave, and once they were getting soft, I got them out and sliced and layered them on top of everything in the pan, and then liberally topped it all with grated cheese. Oven was 375 until the top was browned.

Oh and it was so good, we only ate half and half is frozen for another day!

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My genealogy trekking this week has been amazing, although I stand by that the more questions that I find answers to, the more questions that arise. Trying to find my granpop's siblings and their families is quite frustrating. I have 2 connections, so have one of my granpop's sister's lines kind of sorted, and am trying to get gaps filled in on one of his brothers. The others remain (for now) as elusive as ever.

However, one of my London Facebook groups, provided a connection to a lady who was born a Hunt (my grandmother's mother's side of the family) however thus far we have not found our families to be linked ... yet she bears a resemblance to my nan and great-grandmother and her sister is the image of my sister! We are wondering just how many generations we will have to go back to find where our genetics join up. It could possibly be that their great-grandfather and my great-grandfather may have been brothers, or maybe their fathers were. We are a long way from pinning that down yet!

My nan's Poyser side, well that exploded when I began exploring Blore in Staffordshire, and I am now in contact with another Poyser from that area who has given me a lot more information. I wish I were in England so that I could go visit the churchyard and find the gravestones, plus trudge so many of the areas that still remain and get the "feel" of some of these places.

It's definitely a time consuming, frustrating, yet fulfilling addiction, that's for sure!

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Then tonight, we had one of those "fun with feline" moments. You know, the ones that occur when you have to give a cat a pill? LOL. Well, we have an older cat who is a sweetheart and has suffered a lot in his life, his name is Gizmo. He's actually our oldest at around 13, and was the first I became allergic to (his hair is not velvety soft but kind of coarser) a few years ago. His issues began as a small kitten though, when he had Upper Respiratory, and the vet advised the rescue that had him, to put him down as he was not doing well at all. His fostermother at the time, begged them to give him a chance. He ended up having surgery on his eyes because of the Upper Respiratory, and they have always "wept" since with a murky goo that we have to clean often.

We got him when he was about 3 months old, he was a fosterbaby that never found a forever home and thus ended up staying with us and making us that forever home. 

He has suffered allergies every Summer, and is also allergic to fleas. When his allergies flare, we have to hit them from different directions, cortico-steroids (the vet gives him Prednizone), antihistamines like Benadryl and extra flea care. So, today, hubby got a new flea control to try, and while getting it saw "Pill Pockets" to put tablets in for cats. Yeah, well that may work for some, but he's too smart. Sniffed at it and turned his nose up. So, having tried it the nice way, we had to do it "the mean way". I hate "mistreating" him, but he had to have the meds. 

Suffice to say, it took TWO ADULTS 15 minutes to get one pill down one cat's throat! Every time we thought we'd got it, the mouth would stop moving, we'd start breathing a sigh of relief ... and he'd spit it out! Yes, we won in the end, but the look of disdain from Gizmo put us well in our place, ensuring celebration was out of the question!

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Paid the mortgage this morning. Hubby's money went in the bank ... and, just as quickly, was gone. Set me thinking about the journey a single $1 bill makes in its lifetime. And some other profound thoughts regarding the value of each $1 bill.

For instance, a person works and receives the $1 as pay but (for argument's sake) loses 15c as tax on it. So now it's worth 85c ... but is then used to help pay for something else that has sales tax on it, so loses a little more value by way of the sales tax ... and so on and so forth. Mind boggling. Yes, I get these weird thoughts sometimes. LOL.

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Have a lovely evening and weekend, my friends 





Sunday, July 17, 2016

What a weekend



It has been an eventful weekend, and not all hunky dory all the time, but it's been an ok one nonetheless.

My weekend began on Friday. It finally came time for my seated massage that I have been waiting for, for a couple of weeks now. It was a comedy of errors. How hard can a "seated massage" be? We-ell, let's just say that it took about 5 minutes to get me ON the chair. When you can barely stand on TWO legs, LOL, trying to stand on one and lift a leg whose hip does not do what it should any more, makes for some fun times. Worse, although I can laugh at myself,  and see the funny side, when it's happening and I get a fit of the giggles, I lose the little oomph that I had. I just go weak all over.

My masseuse was awesome, she is originally from Trinidad, and we had an absolutely brilliant conversation while she ironed out my back muscles. 

Hubby's experience wasn't so good, they had scheduling issues and he sat waiting to be taken back for almost an hour. I have to call tomorrow to reschedule, as he never ended up getting his. He was extremely stressed out when I came back out of the room.

We tried to soothe his frazzled mood with rib plates from Little Pigs Barbecue in Mauldin.

Yesterday, hubby worked overtime in the morning and then came home, took recycleables and trash to the dump, and then we went out and delivered an AVON order to a customer, hubby restocked the AVON brochures in our local Ingles store and we dropped brochures off on another customer.

It rained on and off. The rain wasn't particularly heavy around us, but its "being in the air" has wreaked havoc on my arthritis and hubby's. His hips and knees have made walking painful, my hips were more painful than usual but also my INDEX FINGERS! They hurt like I have banged them into something, a constant throbbing ache and then intermittently like a zap of pins and needles that isn't.

Today is another "wants to rain" day so we have both suffered again. Even my oils and other home remedies cannot fight the pain 100%.

Hubby went and had breakfast this morning at IHOP (since his English wife does not cook American breakfasts, LOL). That's his weekend treat. 

He grabbed groceries on his way home ... and came in to find me complaining that my computer wold not start up. He tried. Nothing. Tried again ... nope. So, after hanging around for a little while, off he went to Best Buy and got me the one I'm using now.

He's a great hubby! I rely on my computer so much! For my business, my family history research, my communicating and keeping in touch with family. I am so thankful that I have him. He helps me every day, doing stuff I can no longer do.

Enjoy your Sunday evening, my friends :)


Tuesday, July 5, 2016

The Long Weekend Was Nice

I hate to see my hubby go back to work tomorrow morning! I've just enjoyed him being around ... and for FIVE days! Friday was his alternate Friday off, so turned the 3-day weekend, into a 4, but then he took a vacation day for today, and made it 5! We've made good use of the time, he took it easy but got some things done.

Sleeping in has been an awesome luxury. Just letting our bodies wake up when they feel like it, instead of the piercing buzzing of the alarm at 5.30am signalling my grabbing my walker and making it to the kitchen to let the dogs out, feed the cats, then sit to make hubby's morning coffee and pack up his lunch box for the day. He, poor thing, fumbles to get dressed and out the door, to go work out in the heat on his beloved C-130s all day.

I may be disabled but I try to be a good wife. 

This morning my darlin' friend, Dimple, came over to clean for me, so my house is all fresh and nice. Then hubby and I took a drive down to Waterloo, to go onto the property we have been eyeing these past few weeks. Sadly, it is not to be. The track into the property was extremely rough and rutted, and I almost got stuck, plus the slope is more severe than the photos implied. Worse (for us, with 4 dogs) there were NEIGHBOURS less than 20 feet away ... we had thought there was more space on that side, and a thick wedge of forest, to separate us from the closest people.

It's not that I'm anti-social, I LOVE people, just not close to home. My dogs are indoor outdoor and stay in my fenced yard, but sometimes something may spook them and they'll bark or maybe they'll be playing together and bark, I don't want them disturbing somebody else's peace and quiet, but equally, I don't want someone complaining about them for doing something dogs do. 

It's like being around people, I'm miss chatty cathy when I'm out and about, but I prefer to keep my home just for family. I don't invite people to my home because usually now, I am in bed most of the day, plus - again - my dogs. They are getting older, and although I am 99.9% sure they won't bite anybody, you really never know what can set any animal off. I have no intentions of putting my animals in danger of getting in trouble, nor myself for a lawsuit!

So, sadly, this cute little retreat in Waterloo is not going to be our dream place. We will just continue to look. Having made the decision to look for a lakeside home, we'll just continue the journey for now.


Friday, July 1, 2016

Failure Is Not An Option!

"Failure is not an option!" is one of my outlooks on life. It goes with my business, because if I fail at my AVON, I have nothing else that I can fall back on. Everything else that I have done throughout my life has required some pretty good physical activity -  and that's something I can no longer include in any equation. Walking to the rest room or to the kitchen is a major effort on my part, sometimes a very painful and treacherous trek. So I HAVE to persevere and work it to the best of my CURRENT ability, not allow the "what ifs" or "used tos" get in the way of letting me keep going NOW. Doing what I need to. One step in front of the other, just consistently plodding along.

Funny, because today today the "failure is not an option" changed to "cancer is not an option" as I found myself chatting to the technician who was trying to do the second set of mammogram pics in 2 weeks, the first ones having shown "something" that they wanted to look at more closely.

My careful weighing of all my risk factors for breast cancer kept me sufficiently bouyed - I'd breast fed 3 babies, albeit one only for a month, I didn't smoke or drink alcohol, and wasn't  taking oestrogen. The only downer was my weight, being clinically obese is not good.  

So, I'd stayed in reasonable spirits until chatting with Jackie, and in the middle of explaining how  I'd be messed up if it was a malignancy (since I cannot have anaesthesia) I suddenly blurted out "cancer is not an option, I couldn't do that to my husband!" At that moment, I realised that (for me) it couldn't be. My hubby had been a 12 year old boy who had watched his mother get sicker and sicker, and finally succumb to breast cancer back in 1976. I could not do that to him, I could not put him through what he had suffered back then, now, and with me.

She did the mammograms and went to have the doctor check them, I sat and hummed "God is great, all the time" and prayed that I wouldn't need the ultrasound. 

Jackie came back and explained they still couldn't really tell, that what they were looking at only showed from one angle but hadn't shown on the other pics, so they were going to go ahead with the sonogram. My positivity did slip a notch, l admit, but I prayed a bit more asked that it just turn out to be something not serious.

I had 2 lovely ladies working together to do the ultrasound, one actually doing the scan, one manipulating images and such on another computer screen. Thankfully, after they were done and things were checked, the general consensus was that it is benign, but they want me back in 6 months "just to make sure there's no change".

I am so thankful for that result. God is so good. I made my appointment for January and came out far more relieved than I had been feeling half hour before!

We met up with my granddaughter and her kiddies, Daniel, and Sami, at Chick-Fil-A on Woodruff Rd. Daniel had fun playing in the playroom, and made lots of temporary new friends. After eating lunch, and parting ways, we hit up the European Market for English and German goodies, grabbed jerk turkey, chipotle Gouda cheeses and bread rolls from Publix for sarnis later on, delivered an AVON order to one of my customers, hubby restocked brochures in Ingles in Mauldin, and we dropped off my library book and they ALREADY had one that I had only requested last night online! I LOVE the folks at Mauldin Library, they are awesome!

So now I'm home and kind of relaxing, but have some work to do with getting some advertising out there for the upcoming week. Just enjoying listening to and singing/humming along with Mark Knopfler's Golden Heart CD.

For those interested, there are some sweet deals and freebies coming up on my AVON website

 
I hope you have an awesome evening, and an absolutely wonderful July 4th weekend. Make memories with your families and friends.